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Friday Links (toxic bigotry week)

Created by  Maria Fabrizio, WordlessNews.Com
Created by Maria Fabrizio, WordlessNews.Com
It’s Friday! It’s the third Friday in June. Happy Queer Pride Month! I had planned on calling this week’s Friday Links something like “adorable octopus edition” but there is way too much serious and depressing news, and I left a lot of it out!

Anyway, here is a collection of some of the things that I ran across over the course of the week which struck me as worthy of being shared. Sorted into categories with headings so you can skip more easily:

Link of the Week

They published this op-ed about 36 hours before the Charleston shootings: The Other Terror Threat: the main terrorist threat in the United States is not from violent Muslim extremists, but from right-wing extremists.

Science!

Gun owners not likely to use firearms for self-defense, study claims.

The Little Boy Who Should’ve Vanished, But Didn’t.

Gravity –“The Clue to the Dark, Quantum World of Our Universe.”

Tiny Octopus Is So Cute Scientists Might Name It ‘Adorabilis.’

The Oldest Depiction of the Universe Was Made in 1600 BCE.

Does a black hole create a hologram copy of anything that touches it?

This really belongs under an Anti-Science headline, but: 5 completely insane things Christian fundamentalists are teaching their kids.

Gay moths? London museum gives insects ‘gender treatment’ to protect artifacts.

Rheumatoid Arthritis and Giant Cell Arteritis Correlated with Solar Cycles.

General relativity explains why Schrodinger’s cat is alive.

Remembering Clyde Tombaugh on Pluto’s doorstep.

Helium-Shrouded Planets May Be Common around Other Stars in Our Galaxy.

Cosmic ray observatory to explore hotspot.

Science Fiction, Fantasy and Speculation!

Terry Pratchett’s Daughter Says Discworld Is Over.

SORRY, GAME OF THRONES: IT’S NOT YOU, IT’S ME.

Mad Max: Fury Road Makes Your Rape Arguments Invalid.

Thousands Of Gay Geeks Unite At Flame Con, New York’s First LGBT Comic Con.

Political/culture war news:

Opinion: Washington needs to tell the truth about police violence.

Why There’s No Conservative Jon Stewart.

The GOP Needs a War on Christianity.

John Oliver and Helen Mirren debunk U.S. torture practices: “The reason so many of us believe that torture works is that it does—on TV”.

Donald Trump Campaign Offered Actors $50 to Cheer for Him at Presidential Announcement.

Caitlyn Jenner and Rachel Dolezal: Clash of identity and authenticity.

“Shit’s Gonna Hit the Fan”: Talking to a Billionaire About Class War.

#NoMoreBushes trends on Twitter as Jeb Bush announces he will run for president.

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This Week in Racism

Too often we give lots of press to the hateful killers who commit these crimes, when we should be remembering the victims. There are pictures of each of the nine people killed in the church in Charleston, with some biographical details. I needed more than one kleenex: These Are The Victims Of The Charleston Church Shooting.

Why Recognizing The Charleston Church Shooting As An Act Of Racially Motivated Terrorism Is Only The First Step.

Police Search For Man Suspected Of Killing 9 At South Carolina Church.

For Charleston’s Emanuel A.M.E. Church, shooting is another painful chapter in rich history.

Is South Carolina Just Gonna Fly That Confederate Flag Today or What?

he just said ‘I have to do it. You rape our women and you’re taking over our country. And you have to go.'”

An Emotional Stewart Drops the Comedy to Talk Charleston: ‘We Still Won’t Do Jackshit.’

Shot fired into Saint Matthew Church in Memphis.

Tip from Kings Mountain florists led to Charleston shooting suspect’s arrest. Not just a tip: she called police from her car and kept following him, giving police updates along the way!

Larry Wilmore smacks down Rachel Dolezal: “Sorry lady, you are white, you don’t get an opinion on this. This is not a Buzzfeed quiz”.

Rachel Dolezal Isn’t the Most Important Race Story in Spokane: The Media Circus over One Woman Is Distracting from the Underlying Issues That Need Addressing.

This Week in Sexism

How Tor Books Threw Its Women Employees Under The Bus.

Forget Redefining Beauty: This Fat Chick Just Wants Some Nice Clothes.

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News for queers and our allies:

This Trans Man’s Breast Cancer Nightmare Exemplifies The Problem With Transgender Health Care.

Daddy Issues – After years of thinking my father couldn’t understand his gay son, I was surprised to find he accepted me in ways I never could have imagined possible.

What Religious People Actually Think About Using ‘Religious Liberty’ To Justify Anti-Gay Discrimination. 59 percent of white mainline Protestants, 63 percent of non-white Protestants, and 64 percent of Catholics reject “religious liberty” bills.

‘Oranges, Baby Powder, Handcuffs And Duct Tape’: Inside The Trial That May End The Gay ‘Cure’.

Southern Baptist Manual Offers Suggestions on How to Get Around LGBT Anti-Discrimination Laws. Because, obviously, Jesus wants them to disobey the law and discriminate against their neighbors. Because when he said “love your neighbor as you love yourself” he didn’t mean literally love them…

You Have Two Men To Thank For The Greatest Strides In LGBT Representation On TV.

Gay Marriage Isn’t About Assimilation. My Engagement Was a Radical Act.

Don’t Listen To Same-Sex Marriage Foes: It Was Always About Hating On The Gays.

California attorney general moves to dismiss ‘shoot the gays’ ballot proposal.

‘As a Christian, I am Sorry:’ Evangelical Pastor’s Reflections on Attending First Pride Parade.

Southern Baptist President Bravely Pledges Resistance Against Non-Existent Forced-Marriage Threat.

Israel wouldn’t be able to “pinkwash” the oppression of Palestinians if the Palastinian Authority and the other Muslim nations that surround Israel treated their gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender citizens at least as well as or better than Israel treats its own sexual minorities. The treatment of LGBT people in the Arab/Muslim world is “barbaric, anti-gay, and backwards”—that’s not Israeli spin, that’s a fact. If you think “pinkwashing” is wrong—if you think it’s actually a thing—then you shouldn’t just be calling for a boycott of Israel. You should be calling for better treatment of LGBT people in Egypt, Jordan, Lebanon, Iraq, and what’s left of Syria.’

How Schools Justify Canceling Valedictorian Speeches About Coming Out.

Meet Ryan Anderson, The Anti-LGBT ‘Scholar’ Peddling Junk Science To National Media.

What Are the Sounds of Transphobic Dinosaurs Dying?

Richard Land Bigotsplains Why Acceptance of Gay Rights is Growing.

Black gay men face shocking bigotry.

MARRIAGE NEWS WATCH: 1. The president doesn’t get to veto Supreme Court rulings. 2. Rick Santorum will never be president.

The obligatory Sad Puppies/Hugo Awards update:

Infoxicated Corner: ALL THESE THINGS ARE TRUE: Saumya Arya Haas. “It is true. As in many SF/F tales, a world is at risk. The world of “tradition,” the world where straight, cis, white guys are the inheritors of the throne, the world where women and minorities have their identities dictated and blunted by a dominant narrative: that world is gravely at risk.”

The “Heinlein Couldn’t Win a Hugo Today” crowd is now boycotting Heinlein’s publisher.

Puppies Crying Bitter Tears.

The Blending Puppies.

I am a real person and I stand with Irene Gallo.

Final Words on #Hugowank.

Thoughts on toxic bigotry.

And other news:

JACKASS OF THE WEEK: CHRISTOPHER MIMS.

Happy News!

Christian Homeowner Threatens Neighbor Over ‘Relentlessly Gay’ Rainbow Yard Lamps, Because Children; Homeowner Promises More Rainbows. “Needless to say… I need more rainbows… Many, many more rainbows….”

Pete Buttigieg, Mayor Of South Bend, Indiana, Comes Out As Gay.

Meet The First Gay Couple To Graduate Together From The Boston Police Academy.

Boy Who Lost Stuffed Tiger At Airport Finds Tiger Stayed Very Busy.

Things I wrote:

Hugo Ballot Reviews: Novella.

Sincerely (up) yours,.

Hugo Ballot Reviews: Graphic Story.

The Best Kind of Books Are Magic Books – more of why I love sf/f.

Videos!

THICK THIGHS by Willam feat. Latrice Royale:

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How Much Would it Cost to Build Jurassic Park?:

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Thousands drawn to Indy Pride Parade:

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Curious otter pup:

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Long After You’re Gone: A Leverage Tribute:

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Greg Holden – Boys In The Street (Official Music Video):

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Friday Links (baby small-clawed otters edition)

Not the baby otters. Check the video below to see them.
Not the baby otters. Check the video below to see the babies.
It’s Friday! The the second Friday in June. Happy Queer Pride Month! It’s been a grueling week, though the difficulties of each day have been very different. I really need this weekend!

Anyway, here is a collection of some of the things that I ran across over the course of the week which struck me as worthy of being shared. Sorted into categories with headings so you can skip more easily:

Link of the Week

Alyssa Wong: “No, Short Fiction Isn’t Too Short to Include Diversity.”

Science!

The Surprising Reason Why Some People Smile More.

Endangered otters make comeback in Sweden.

Five Weeks to Pluto: The Strange Discovery of Planet X and a World Like No Other (Part 2).

Mystery on Mercury: Strange Pattern of Huge Cliffs Defy Explanation.

Supernova prized by astronomers begins to fade from view.

Monstrous Galaxy Spotted Near The Edge of the Universe.

Saturn’s biggest ring just got BIGGER: New image reveals it is 20 times larger than any other ring in the solar system.

Quantum Phenomenon That Existed in the Early Universe –“Evidence Observed”.

Alaska researchers may use drones to study otters.

Political/culture war news:

Dennis Hastert Apparently Had Sex With Male Students. Does That Make Him Gay?

Pope Creates Tribunal To Judge Bishop Child Sex Abuse Cases.

When the Therapist Is a Quack. Bad headline: any therapist offering gay cures is a quack. Period. Every single medical and psychiatric association has said so.

GOP Calls for ‘All Hell Breaking Loose’ Over Gay Marriage, Because ‘God’.

Hillary shocker: Who needs Elizabeth Warren? Clinton unleashes inner liberal, media freaks out.

Michael Slager, Cop Who Fatally Shot Walter Scott In South Carolina, Indicted For Murder.

5 reasons George W. Bush is still one of the worst presidents ever.

Indiana’s ‘Religious Freedom’ law is already hilariously backfiring.

Liberals Make Big Comeback in 2015, Poll Analysis Finds.

How to Tell the Difference Between an Open-Carry Patriot and a Deranged Killer.

Rand Paul Caught Trying to Use Fake Quote from Founding Father to Justify His Ignorance.

Michigan Senate OKs bills allowing adoption agencies to deny LGBT parents.

Ben Carson: Gay Rights Aren’t Civil Rights Because Gay People Don’t Have Separate Water Fountains.

Libertarianism is for white men: The ugly truth about the right’s favorite movement. Wait, you’re just now figuring this out?

This Week in Racism

On Fox News: A White Sexual Abuser Was “Curious” But A Black Victim Of Police Abuse “Was No Saint.”

What determines if a murder case gets solved? Race.

This Week in Sexism

#Distractinglysexy Twitter campaign mocks Tim Hunt’s sexist comments.

Abortion rights leader’s pregnancy surprises opponents: ‘Is that real?’

Woman Charged With Murder For Taking The Abortion Pill [UPDATED].

News for queers and our allies:

Conservative British MP Comes Out, Announces Wedding to Secret Partner of 29 Years.

Why we still need our gay bars.

How The Nonreligious ‘Nones’ Are Driving LGBT Equality in the U.S.

Straight talk on gay marriage: Even if gay marriage becomes legal, it will not be compulsory.

Evangelical Christian Leaders Are Taking Baby Steps Toward LGBT Acceptance.

Tony Campolo Calls for Full Inclusion of Gay & Lesbian Christians.

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN THERE’S NOTHING LEFT TO SAY ABOUT MARRIAGE.

16-YEAR-OLD ADAM KIZER’S DEATH DRAWS ATTENTION TO BULLYING, SUICIDE EPIDEMIC AMONG BISEXUAL TEENS.

Archivists Recover ‘Lost’ 1961 TV Documentary on Homosexuality.

Why the military depends on gay and lesbian troops.

Murders of LGBT and HIV-positive people in the US rise 11% in 2014.

An Updated Graphic Guide to LGBTQ YA Literature for Pride Month.

“Midnighter” Is The Gay Comic Book You’ve Been Waiting For.

New Study Sheds Light on Problems Facing Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Homeless Youth.

Dear Bigoted Couple Who Want To Divorce To Protest Gay Marriage….

The obligatory Sad Puppies/Hugo Awards update:

co-signed, strong letter to follow. Dara comments on the Irene Gallo situation and rounds up several other links that shed more light.

Tom Doherty Statement on Tor.com [fixed]. What Tor’s publisher should have said.

Puppies in Their Own Words. I disagree with one of Jim’s conclusions… but my disagreement deserves a blot post of its own.

The Revolution of Self-Righteous Dickery will Not Be Moderated.

How Tor failed Social Media 101.

Farewells:

Hermann Zapf, the font designer behind Palatino and Zapf Dingbats, has died at 96.

Christopher Lee dies at the age of 93.

Ron Moody, Who Delighted Audiences As Fagin In ‘Oliver!’ Dies.

Ornette Coleman, Composer and Saxophonist Who Rewrote the Language of Jazz, Dies at 85.

Gilbert Lewis, the Original King of Cartoons on ‘Pee-Wee’s Playhouse,’ Dies at 79.

Godzilla Actor Hiroshi Koizumi Dies at 88.

And other news:

Woman Asks Psychics to Connect With a Dead Sister Who Never Existed… and (Surprise!) They All Do.

Why Don’t Christian Writers Know Why People Really Leave Church?

Happy News!

3 Asian Small-Clawed Otters Born At Denver Zoo.

New mom Asha nurtures her baby otters at Denver Zoo.

Watch: John Waters gave the 2015 commencement address at RISD and CRUSHED IT.

http://www.alternet.org/media/collapse-rush-limbaughs-radio-empire.

Spy Beats Entourage at Box Office Because Women Don’t Hate Themselves .

2015 Gale/LJ Library of the Year: Ferguson Municipal Public Library, MO, Courage in Crisis.

Things I wrote:

Two very different coming out stories, and a reflection on mine.

Putting the genie back in the bottle.

Hugo Ballot Reviews: Novelette.

The Moon Harshed My Mellow: more of why I love sf/f.

Videos!

冬至 Tooji –The Father Project:

“Tooji is a Norwegian artist. As a one year old boy, he came to Norway together with his mother, who fled from the authoritarian regime in Iran. Tooji became known in Norway when he won the national Eurovision Song Contest in 2012 and represented Norway in the international final of ESC in Azerbaijan with the song “Stay”. In the autumn 2013 Tooji cut all ties to the Norwegian music industry and moved to Stockholm, Sweden. Toojis new song “Father” is Oslo Pride’s official pride anthem for 2015.”

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Three Otter Pups Born at Denver Zoo:

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Fly Over Dwarf Planet Ceres:

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Rachel Maddow – Franklin Graham’s anti-gay banking protest backfires:

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Alan Colmes vs. Todd Starnes: Are Christians persecuted in US?:

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Prides – Messiah (2015):

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Aston Merrygold – Get Stupid (Official Video):

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Friday Links (run-away pig edition)

CGix63AUkAEYIvAIt’s Friday! The first Friday in June. Happy Queer Pride Month! I’m still limping around a lot thanks to some torn ligaments in my ankle and foot. But I’ve been steadily improving (elevation and ice are my new best friends)!

Anyway, here is a collection of some of the things that I ran across over the course of the week which struck me as worthy of being shared. Sorted into categories with headings so you can skip more easily:

Link of the Week

Minnesota Cordially Invites You To Come Gay It Up With Your Hot Dish Husband.

Science!

New Images of Pluto from New Horizons Gradually Reveal More Detail.

ORIGAMI ROBOT FOLDS UP, SWIMS, DIGS, THEN DISSOLVES.

Ultraviolet study reveals surprises in comet coma.

Australian experiment confirms quantum theory weirdness.

Pluto and Its Moons Are Weirder Than We Thought.

Solved: The Riddle of the Nova of 1670.

What Will New Horizons See — and When?

Science Fiction, Fantasy and Speculation!

MIND MELD: Genre Awards: What are They Good for Anyway?

‘Star Trek’ actress Nichelle Nichols suffers stroke.

“Just this one teensy, tiny little change…”.

Madeline Ashby: Fiction Writer and Futurist.

Nichelle Nichols Recovering From Stroke.

Political/culture war news:

SUPREME COURT REJECTS ARIZONA’S REQUEST TO REVIVE ANTI-IMMIGRANT LAW.

Thoughts on The Kipnis Clown Show and the Drama of University Life. “In other words, Kipnis wrote a sharp-tongued, one-dimensional caricature of university sexual assault and trigger warning activists at Northwestern. And they turned around and proved her one-dimensional caricature 100% right.”

America’s grand historical deception: Why it pretends White Supremacy no longer exists.

Minnesota Woman Terrorizes Muslim Couple.

The Daily Show Blasts Media’s Dismissive Coverage Of Sen. Bernie Sanders’ 2016 Campaign.

Garbage collectors are more likely to die on the job than police patrol officers.

When “Religion” Is Just Bigotry.

Once Again, Mike Huckabee Proves That Republicans Don’t Know Anything About the Constitution.

The Real America. “Younger and/or foreign readers may not recall how big a role the alleged moral superiority of small-town America used to play in conservative politics (and still does, to some extent)…”

Imagine If Muslims Surrounded A Christian Church In The US With Assault Rifles During Prayer Time.

COLLEGE RUNNING BACK INDICTED ON HATE CRIME CHARGES FOR ASSAULTING GAY COUPLE HE SAW KISS ON THE STREET: VIDEO.

Pastor Tells Graduating High School Seniors They Will Go To Hell If They’re Gay.

Yes, Bush helped create ISIS — and set up the Middle East for a generation of chaos.

Black family faces jail time for cheering teen at a Mississippi high school graduation.

Rick Santorum Wants Pope Francis To Stop Talking About Climate Change.

School kitchen manager: I was fired for giving lunches to hungry students.

You Can Be Prosecuted for Clearing Your Browser History.

Duggar Endorsements Disappear From Huckabee’s Campaign Site. Imagine that…

This Week in Sexism

These 25 Examples of Male Privilege from a Trans Guy’s Perspective Really Prove the Point.

mad max – what is okay and what is not. “The single biggest thing I walked away with, though, was that the realisation that its philosophical assumption that women shouldn’t be sex slaves is what really caused the the misogynist/”manosphere”/return-of-kings crowd to explode.”

The “Fake Geek” is Not The Problem When It Comes to “Fake Geek Girls” by Chris Brecheen. I think I linked to this last year, but it came across my screen again, and it’s worth re-reading from time to time.

I Have Been Sitting on Manspreaders For the Last Month and I Have Never Felt More Free.

News for queers and our allies:

North Carolina governor vetoes bill on religious objection to gay marriage.

And while the state senate moved quickly to vote to override the veto: Gay marriage override vote in NC House pushed back again. They’ve rescheduled several times because they’ve lost some votes. Couldn’t possibly be because national media has pointed out that the anti-gay marriage measure could also be an anti-interracial marriage result, among other things…

Va. Family Drops Charges Against Trans Woman Arrested for Aiding Their Suicidal Trans Son. “I never imagined helping teens or others would come to something like this,” said Julianna Fialkoswki, who alleges mistreatment from Lynchburg police.

Catholics are way more supportive of marriage equality than people think.

Covering a parade is not covering a community: 5 things to keep in mind this Pride Month.

Why Do Comic Books Mean So Much to Some Queer People? – Queers and Comics Meet at Flame Con.

‘Therapists’ Called Clients ‘Fags,’ Made Them Strip in Gay Conversion Therapy.

Pastor Warns Gays Are Becoming Too Powerful, Turning Entire Generations Bisexual.

IN Guv Issues Pride Welcome, Forgets LGBT People.

“God” Purchases Two “God Loves Gays” Billboards in Utah For Pride Month.

how prom became queer.

‘Intolerant Jackass Act’ Proponents Can Begin Collecting Signatures. While the status of a “Sodomite Suppression Act” proposed state ballot initiative remains in limbo, proponents of a rival “Intolerant Jackass Act” initiative were cleared by state Secretary of State Alex Padilla to begin collecting signatures Wednesday. The rival initiative would force the filer of the Sodomite Suppression Act or any similar initiative to attend sensitivity training and donate $5,000 to a pro-gay or pro-lesbian organization. When Huntington Beach attorney Matt McLaughlin filed the Sodomite Suppression Act earlier this year, which would make homosexuality punishable by death, it set off a nationwide backlash for its evident hatred and dubious constitutionality. Attorney General Kamala Harris sought a court injunction rescinding her obligation to prepare a title and summary for the initiative, a necessary step before proponents can begin gathering the 365,880 signatures necessary to get it on the ballot.

The obligatory Sad Puppies/Hugo Awards update:

This JUST In. There is a game children play—or more often, try to play at—when they are caught doing something they know they shouldn’t. It’s called “I WAS JUST”.

Pink SF and Puppies.

Why Guardians?

And other news:

US airport screeners missed 95% of weapons, explosives in undercover tests.

Web Decay Graph. “I’ve been writ­ing this blog since 2003 and in that time have laid down, along with way over a million words, 12,373 hyperlinks. I’ve noticed that when something leads me back to an old piece, the links are broken disappointingly often. So I made a little graph of their decay over the last 144 months.”

Wayward pig gets ride in police car, poses for epic photo.

Things I wrote:

Blurring patriotism into….

Achieve my goals with this one weird trick.

Colors of the rainbow so pretty in the sky, also on the faces of people passing by.

Citizen of the (two-fisted) Galaxy: more of why I love sf/f.

Videos!

Funny or Die – The Duggars Respond To Sexual Abuse Scandal:

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MIKA – Good Guys:

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Will Young – Love Revolution:

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Rachel Lark :: Gay Man on the West Coast :: Live @ Bawdy Storytelling (NSFW, but funny as heck!) “I wanna be normal for having orgies, and radical for having kids…”:

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NYC Pride Month 2015 Ad:

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Neon Trees – Songs I Can’t Listen To:

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Jennifer Hudson – I Still Love You (a wedding music video that made me cry):

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Friday Links (baby elephant edition)

Mike Luckovich (Atlanta Journal-Constitution)
by Mike Luckovich (Atlanta Journal-Constitution, click to embiggen)
It’s Friday! The fifth Friday in May. Despite a number of misadventures including some really odd car issues, we have made it to our hotel room at Everfree NW and are having a lot of pony-related fun. Depending on how healed my ankle is from this week’s misadventure. I may do nothing more than hobble from our room to the bar.

Anyway, here is a collection of some of the things that I ran across over the course of the week which struck me as worthy of being shared. Sorted into categories with headings so you can skip more easily:

Link of the Week

It’s time we have a holiday to honor those who try to stop wars, too.

Science!

Vesta has no moons – is it unlucky or did it eat them?

Double blow to skull is earliest evidence of murder, a 430,000-year-old whodunit.

Sudden onset of ice loss in Antarctica so large it affects Earth’s gravity field.

Explaining a Cornerstone of Game Theory: John Nash’s Equilibrium.

Political/culture war news:

The Perfect Explanation of Privilege – In One Powerful Punchline.

Segregationists never went away: We just call them “small-government conservatives” now.

MARRIED TENNESSEE PASTOR EMBEZZLED THOUSANDS FROM CHURCH, SPENT IT ON MANHUNT MEMBERSHIP.

Thanks To Pedophile Cop Pal, Sister-Touching Josh Duggar Will Never Be Prosecuted. Thanks Cop Pal!

Vatican Calls Ireland Same-Sex Marriage Vote a ‘Defeat for Humanity’. But decades of protecting, covering for, and enabling pedophile priests was a victory?

Rubio: If We Don’t Stop Gay Rights, Soon The Teachings Of The Catholic Church Will Be ‘Hate Speech’.

TED CRUZ PROMISES TO ‘ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS’ DEFEND CHRISTIANS’ RIGHT TO DISCRIMINATE AGAINST GAYS: VIDEO.

Josh Duggar Friend Mike Huckabee to Run on Bold Pro-Child Molester Platform.

The Catholic Church’s American downfall: Why its demographic crisis is great news for the country.

7 Things People Who Say They’re ‘Fiscally Conservative But Socially Liberal’ Don’t Understand: Social and economic issues are deeply intertwined.

Josh Duggar didn’t make a “mistake” — he’s going to get away with sexual assault.

Twitter is under no obligation to host Chuck Johnson’s witch hunts.

What Clintons Do Is ‘Scandalous,’ What Republicans Do Is… Ignored.

Lawmakers overestimate how conservative their districts are—by a lot.

The Myth of the Hero Cop: Police officers earn more than you think for a job that’s less dangerous than you imagine.

News for queers and our allies:

WATCH: Ellen Meets Trans Hunk Aydian Dowling.

How Ireland’s gay marriage vote exposes the catch-22 of modern Christianity.

VIRTUALLY EVERY DEMOGRAPHIC GROUP NOW SUPPORTS GAY MARRIAGE.

Why Thousands Of Catholics Voted For Marriage Equality In Ireland.

Hawaii Supreme Court dismisses challenge to marriage equality law.

Let’s Take Queer YA Out of the Closet.

Why Can’t We Talk About Homophobia in the Black Community?

Lesbian, gay and bisexual Americans differ from general public in their religious affiliations.

WATCH: Alabama Jails, Fines Minister After Performing Lesbian Wedding. Who is defending religious liberty, again?

Equality and Representation of LGBTQ People in Fantasy.

“I am the mother of a gay son and I’ve taken enough from you good people.”

Video game shop responds perfectly to vandals who scrawled ‘gay’ on their window.

The obligatory Sad Puppies/Hugo Awards update:

Science Fiction’s White Male Problem. What I like most about this one is the Samuel R. Delaney anecdote. “A genre that includes the socialist H.G. Wells, the libertarian Heinlein, the Catholic conservative Gene Wolfe, the anarchist Le Guin, the feminist Margaret Atwood and the Marxist China Mieville can hardly be thought of as essentially nonpolitical entertainment.”

The Way the Future Never Was.

And the follow-up: The Way the Future Never Was: A Visual Appendix.

if you haven’t seen this yet (we have always been at war with eurasia).

And other news:

Anne Meara, one half of ‘Stiller & Meara’ and mother of Ben Stiller, dies.

Tanith Lee, 1947-2015.

Happy News!

Five hundred new fairytales discovered in Germany.

Things I wrote:

Tom Puppy and the Visitor from Planet Clueless.

A Boy and His Telepathic Cat: more of why I love sf/f.

Videos!

Bohemian Rhapsody Played by 100+ year old fairground organ:

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Making History – GAZE celebrates marriage equality vote in Ireland:

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Betty Explains Religious Freedom:

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Pretty Boys – A Public Service Announcement:

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Baby elephant makes public debut in Syracuse:

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Matt Gold – “Low” Official Music Video:

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Friday Links (baby leopard edition!)

Quadruplet clouded leopard cubs were born at Point Defiance zoo and aquarium in Tacoma, Washington (Photograph: Point Defiance Zoo/Facebook)
Quadruplet clouded leopard cubs were born at Point Defiance zoo and aquarium in Tacoma, Washington
(Photograph: Point Defiance Zoo/Facebook)
It’s Friday! The fourth Friday in May. We have family flying in from out of town, and they want to do a whirlwind tourist-y tour of Seattle, so I’m going probably going to be off the grid until sometime next week.

Anyway, here is a collection of some of the things that I ran across over the course of the week which struck me as worthy of being shared. Sorted into categories with headings so you can skip more easily:

Link of the Week

Ian McEwan to Grads: Defend Free Speech. It’s long, but really worth the read. And it is not entirely about what you think it’s about.

Science!

Girls With Toys: This is what real scientists look like..

New Mind-Altering Substance Identified. It’s Called Writing.

The Irrationality of Alcoholics Anonymous. “Its faith-based 12-step program dominates treatment in the United States. But researchers have debunked central tenets of AA doctrine and found dozens of other treatments more effective.” (Thanks to geojlc for the link!)

Science women celebrate ‘toys’ after radio show comment.

The closest supernova candidate?

Why is the Universe flat and not spherical? (Advanced).

THIS IS NOT A SNAKE, IT’S SOME OF THE BEST MIMICRY WE’VE EVER SEEN.

Introducing Washington’s first dinosaur. Woo hoo!

And for more information: The First Dinosaur from Washington State and a Review of Pacific Coast Dinosaurs from North America.

What effect did compression waves have immediately following the Big Bang? (Intermediate).

The Slow-Motion Symbiotic Train Wreck of the 13-Year Cicada.

New Math Model Shows How Neural Networks Create Memories.

Quantum-mechanical monopoles discovered.

Astronomers baffled by discovery of rare quasar quartet.

Oil CEO Wanted University Quake Scientists Dismissed: Dean’s E-Mail.

Political/culture war news:

Let’s stop saying bad police officers are rare. Fact is they’re plentiful from coast to coast.

BOMBSHELL DUGGAR POLICE REPORT: JIM BOB DUGGAR DIDN’T REPORT SON JOSH’S ALLEGED SEX OFFENSES FOR MORE THAN A YEAR. Shorter version of the same headline: Awful hateful bigot does awful things, duh.

Gross Josh Duggar Admits To Molesting His Own Sisters, Resigns From Family Research Council. The Wonkette actually has screen captures of a lot of the redacted police documents and way more details than I found anywhere else.

Largest Paper in New Jersey Calls Chris Christie Out for Losing Touch with Reality.

Bush Administration Gave ‘False Presentation’ Of The True Intelligence, Briefer Charges. File this under, “We told you so years ago”

White America’s Waco insanity: The shocking realities it ignores about racism & violence.

George W. Bush’s CIA briefer admits Iraq WMD “intelligence” was a lie.

The Christian right is losing women: Why more and more are embracing non-belief.

President Obama And Bill Clinton Put Republicans To Shame With Twitter Takeover.

This Week in Sexism

On the Rape of Sansa Stark and Quitting Game of Thrones.

Maggie Gyllenhaal: At 37 I was ‘too old’ for role opposite 55-year-old man.

What Hollywood’s Acceptance Of Sexism Looks Like In Practice.

I had a culture column at WIRED. And then I didn’t. Here’s what happened.

News for queers and our allies:

Here’s the latest conservative outlet equating gay rights with slavery; yes, slavery, and yes, literally.

Okay, let’s talk about ‘silencing’.

A gay-marriage opponent changes his mind.

Boy Scouts Head Robert Gates: Blanket Ban On Gay Leaders “Cannot Be Sustained”. The former defense secretary, now president of the Boy Scouts, called upon the organization to make a change “sooner rather than later.”

FRC prays against Dan Savage ‘spewing upon our nation’; I’ll let Dan make that joke himself.

EXCLUSIVE: Grindr Screenshots Reveal Antigay Pastor Is A Top Who Likes To Cuddle.

And it gets worse: Anti-Gay Pastor Caught On Grindr Told Gay Teen He Was Going To Hell, Should Commit Suicide, Says Mom. (Seriously, how many times does this have to happen before everyone in the world realizes that almost every virulently anti-gay person is a deeply closet self-hating homosexual themselves?)

Gay rights supporters score two victories in conservative Arkansas.

France’s main Protestant church votes to allow vicars to choose whether to bless same-sex marriages.

Child abuser in Argentina has sentence reduced as judges rule six-year-old victim ‘was gay’ and had been traumatised through earlier abuse.

Backlash, bullies and victory blindness.

Gay fairy tales in Orange County.

I AM A HOMOPHOBE (AND THAT’S WHY I’M VOTING YES).

Judith Marcin: Guest Post on Crafting Queer Characters.

‘Baking pretty cakes for a living is pretty gay actually’, declares Judge. I don’t completely agree with this, but I don’t completely disagree, either…

SEN. KIRSTEN GILLIBRAND INTRODUCES BILL TO END ANTI-LGBT DISCRIMINATION IN ADOPTION.

US Christians ‘bankrolling’ No campaign in Ireland’s gay marriage referendum.

not all gay men want to be ordinary.

The obligatory Sad Puppies/Hugo Awards update:

Eric Flint: WHAT THE HELL, LET’S DO IT AGAIN – STILL MORE ON THE HUGO AWARDS.

Situation Normal: All Fisked Up.

Unassigned Readings — As for gaming the Hugo awards, it is surprisingly easy….

Puppies wee on your shoulders and tell you it’s rain.

Hugo Awards: Short Fiction. “Oh, Puppies, just because you agree with the message, it does not make the work any less message fiction.”

And other news:

B.B. King: A Tribute to Blues Brotherhood.

William Zinsser, Author of ‘On Writing Well,’ Dies at 92.

A writer, a hermit, and Oreo cookies: The strange and sad tale of Cole Waddell’s first magazine story.

Pianist James Rhodes wins right to publish autobiography telling of abuse.

Simon Pegg: Big Mouth Strikes Again. “…maybe I was being a little bit trollish, I can be a bit of a Contrary Mary in interviews sometimes…”

A Liberator, But Never Free.

Farewell, Dave!

Letterman Leaves Late-Night TV With A Near-Perfect Final Show.

Regis Philbin: I hope David Letterman comes back.

Top moments from David Letterman finale.

Happy News!

Hey Other Comic Book Shows, The Flash Finale Just Kicked Your Ass. It really did!

Kate Brown signs bill banning ‘conversion therapy’ for LGBT youth. (Yes, I decided to put this here, rather than up with the other queer-related news, because it really is happy news for everyone)

Things I wrote:

Hugo Ballot Reviews: Short Stories.

And Pot shots from the troll gallery.

And for Throwback Thursday: Time Travellers Strictly Cash: more of why I love sf/f.

Videos!

Study: Every Republican Obamacare Prediction Was Wrong:

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DON’T WAIT – OFFICIAL MUSIC VIDEO | Joey Graceffa:

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Taylor Swift – Bad Blood ft. Kendrick Lamar:

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Four rare clouded leopard cubs born at Point Defiance Zoo & Aquarium (music, no narration):

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Endangered Clouded Leopard Gives Birth To Four Adorable Cubs (with narration):

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The final Top Ten, Top Ten Things Celebrities Have Always Wanted to Say to David Letterman:

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Friday Links (angry owl edition)

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Screenshot from msnbc video.
It’s Friday! The third Friday in May. My how the time files.

Anyway, here is a collection of some of the things that I ran across over the course of the week which struck me as worthy of being shared. Sorted into categories with headings so you can skip more easily:

Science!

Scientists Crack A 50-Year-Old Mystery About The Measles Vaccine.

Images: Uncovering the Colossal Dreadnoughtus Dinosaur.

Left-handed cosmic magnetic field could explain missing antimatter.

Writing and speaking come from different parts of the brain, study shows.

Early European may have had Neanderthal great-great-grandparent.

Our Galaxy Could be Mixing With Andromeda’s Supersized Halo.

5 Roman Inventions You Probably Take For Granted.

Weird political news:

Idiot Tennessee Rep Knows All The Christians Are Being Holocausted, Just Can’t Say Where.

Warning, Austin: Your Female City Councilors Will Talk a Lot, Hate Math.

Jon Stewart destroys Fox News scrooge Varney: ‘How f*cking removed from reality’ are you?

Texas Lawmakers Are Getting Ready To Defy The Supreme Court On Marriage.

Anti-Gay Activist Admits Her Testimony To Senators On Texas Anti-Gay Bill Was False.

Democrats demand probe into discrimination against Jews, gays on Middle Eastern airlines.

Evangelicals’ claims of conservative supremacy are overstated — and misread America’s religious landscape.

News for queers and our allies:

In Elementary School, I Was an Effeminate ‘Honey child’.

The Queer Cripple and the Body Conundrum.

Rush Limbaugh Tells Businesses To Blame Anti-Gay Bigotry On Muslims.

Dell Urges Texas Lawmakers To Stop Anti-Gay Marriage Bill.

NUMBER OF ANTI-LGBT HATE GROUPS INCREASES 10 PERCENT.

High School Wrestling Champ Quells Bi Rumors: “I’m Not Bisexual…I’m Gay.

Some LGBT residents critical of Utah’s new anti-discrimination law. When half the law is exemptions, it ought to be everyone who is unhappy… (except the bigots, of course)

LGBT’s: Don’t Forget Riots Are What Got Us Here.

Gay couples are facing pressure to get married from their employers.

Yes, There Are A Lot More Gay Christians Than You Probably Think.

Gay rights supporters score two victories in conservative Arkansas.

Why Tim Cook Should Threaten to Shut Down Apple Campus Amid Texas Anti-Gay Crusade.

The obligatory Sad Puppies/Hugo Awards update:

In which I waste time and annoy Puppies. “Obeying the rules doesn’t mean you played fair. It might just mean you’re a very successful weasel.”

Statistics of Gender on the Hugo Writing Nominees: Probabilities and Standard Deviations.

The Barker and the Big Tent.

Sad Puppies Review Books: IF YOU GIVE A MOUSE A COOKIE. Not all of these satirical reviews are funny, but I liked this one.

And other news:

OED appeals: can you help us find earlier evidence of the word jackalope?

Life Is “Triggering.” The Best Literature Should Be, Too.

Dr. Lepore’s Lament. Cheeky response to a New Yorker columnist’s clueless review of a feminist comic book.

Pleasure and self-care should not be luxuries.

Things I wrote:

Marooned off Vesta: more of why I love sf/f.

The stories we have to tell.

About disliking a ‘classic’ novel.

Happy News!

Angry owl signs fund new playground improvements.

California judge: Abstinence-only sex education isn’t sex education at all.

Videos!

Why the Daily Show had to change:

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The Carbonite Maneuver (1985):

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Scientists just captured stunning images of deep sea creatures off the coast of Puerto Rico:

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Bertha, Mayor Murray and the Viaduct Doom Portal:

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ABC The Muppets First Look:

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Faith No More – Superhero:

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The Avener, Phoebe Killdeer – Fade Out Lines:

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Assessments, plans, and implementations: a metapost

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Some parts of this post may fall too far into the “what I had for breakfast” zone for some of you, but it helps me to stick to plans if I share them with people. Not that I get nagged often by my readers, I just am more motivated to do things I have said I would do than to follow through on plans that I keep to myself.

So I’ve been making some changes to my routines in an attempt to improve my writing productivity, and I’m thinking about some changes for this blog…
Continue reading Assessments, plans, and implementations: a metapost

Friday Links (insane lawsuit edition!)

32613-equal-protection-20130326202918It’s Friday! Another not very pleasant week of work is very nearly over! Last weekend I had a fabulous date night with my very sexy husband, then we had a fun movie excursion with 8 of the coolest nerds in the Puget Sound, and then we had a great time journeying to the year 1877 and meddling with the Russo-Turkish War (though by this session of the game it was all down to treaty negotions and shopping trips). This weekend we’re gaming with other friends in a land of candy-colored ponies and cosmic forces no pony was meant to understand. Some months, the weekends are the only thing that make life bearable, no?

Anyway, here is a collection of some of the things that I ran across over the course of the week which struck me as worthy of being shared. I’ve decided to do the links a little differently this time, and make it easier for people to skip the sorts of things they aren’t interested in. But first up, the silliest story of the week, perhaps of the entire year:

This Woman Is Suing All Gay People On Earth On God’s Behalf. Yes, Really. I’m linking to several versions of the story, mostly because I love the headlines. You really don’t need to click on more than one of them…

God Sues Homosexuals In Nebraska. God Has Terrible Grammar.

Woman Sues Homosexuals in Federal Court—All Homosexuals.

Nebraska Woman Sues All Homosexuals. I love that this site posted all seven pages of the woman’s poorly spelled handwritten brief.

Ambitiously Homophobic Nebraska Woman Sues Every Gay on Earth.

Totally Normal Nebraska Lady Would Like To See ALL GAYS In Court Right Now!

But the fun couldn’t last through the week: Judge Tosses Lawsuit By Nebraska Woman Suing ‘All Homosexuals’ On Behalf Of Jesus.

That’s more than enough about that. Meanwhile, some cool things happened in science:

UW tracks undersea volcano erupting off Washington coast.

Honey Bunches of Lies: Why eating local honey won’t cure your allergies.

Ladybirds are widely adored for their spotty bodies, but these cute beetles often eat each other and are infested with blood-sucking mites.

Meet Loki, your closest-known prokaryote relative.

The ‘other’ red meat on the ‘real’ palaeodiet.

The Rök Stone – Riddles and answers.

10 Real-Life Animal Husbandry Techniques That Alien Zoos Will Use On Us.

CRAZY CAMOUFLAGE: LET’S PLAY SPOT THE SNOW LEOPARD.

That was fun! Now the weird political news:

A Couple Quick Thoughts on Geller in Texas.

Republicans Admit Hobby Lobby Ruling Is Religious Tyranny Meant to Control Women.

“We need to talk about this as terrorism”: The war against abortion providers.

Wonder Why The American Right Is So Dumb? Read Fox Nation vs. Reality: The Fox News Cult Of Ignorance.

Ben Carson Enters GOP Race with “A Glory Hallelujah Star-Spangled Jesus Frenzy”.

Death for Drug Dealers and Quarantines for AIDS Victims: The Mike Huckabee You May Not Remember.

Jon Stewart Mocks ‘Lone Star Lunatics’ Who Believe Obama Is Trying To Invade Texas (Video).

The ludicrous myth of Republican fiscal responsibility: A history lesson for the modern GOP.

Americans Far More Comfortable With Gay Presidential Candidate Than Evangelical Christian.

Carly Fiorina Is Running to Be 2016’s Sarah Palin.

Now the news relevant to queer people, and those who love us

How to count how many people are gay. Another take on the very tricky statistical question.

WHAT MARRIAGE EQUALITY WOULD MEAN FOR THE ECONOMY.

Mom, Dad, I’m Not a Lesbian.

How big business in Texas is rallying to defend gay rights.

Why the Boycott Against Ted Cruz’s Gay Hosts Is a Watershed Moment.

Oregon bill to ban conversion therapy for LGBT youth sent to governor’s desk.

ANTI-LGBT ACTIVIST WHO ONCE TRIED TO BURN KORAN SUES FORT WORTH OVER TREATMENT AT GAY PRIDE: VIDEO.

CECIL BALDWIN, DYLAN MARRON, AND KEVIN WADA SLATED TO JOIN NYC’S FIRST LGBTQ-CENTIC COMIC CONVENTION ‘FLAME CON’.

This Gay Couple Shows How Love Can Overcome Bigotry.

And I wrote about, among other things, how I became a fan of the sci fi tales of John Varley: Picnic on the Queer Side: more of why I love sf/f.

People we lost:

Errol Brown, ‘You Sexy Thing’ vocalist, dead at 71.

Grace Lee Whitney, Yeoman Rand on ‘Star Trek,’ dead at 85.

Jayne Meadows Dies at 95; Widow of Steve Allen Was Nominated for 3 Emmys.

The obligatory Sad Puppies/Hugo Awards update:

How conservatives took over sci-fi’s most prestigious award.

An open letter to Chief Warrant Officer Brad R. Torgersen.

Change, Reaction and Pain – Coping With Cultural Backlash.

I wrote about why I love science fiction and why this situation bothers me: Visions and Ventures: why I love sf/f.

And a follow up about why I said what I meant and meant what I said and will not be lectured by people who don’t know the situation as well as I do: Adventures in being straightsplained.

And other news:

Preschool rallies after little free library is torched. What kind of scumbag sets fire to a little free library? WARNING: video plays automatically.

3 Things No Estranged Child Needs To Hear On Mother’s Day.

Video shows four parole officers detained by gun-wielding police for Driving While Black.

The Price of Nice Nails.

Today Is the 151st Birthday of All-Around Feminist Badass Nellie Bly.

Hostage saves herself via Pizza Hut app: “Please help. Get 911 to me.”

Abstinence-Only Texas High School Hit By Chlamydia Outbreak; 1 In 15 Students Affected.

Why Are the Star Wars Prequels Hated So Much? Besides the fact that they mostly sucked, you mean?

U.S. top court rejects challenge to New Jersey ‘gay conversion therapy’ ban.

Videos!

MIKA – Talk About You:

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Hot Chocolate – You sexy thing 1975:

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Beauty And The Beat Boots by Todrick Hall:

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Brandon Flowers – I Can Change (Audio):

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Magic Mike XXL – Official Trailer [HD]:

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“Vacation” Red Band Trailer – I’m not really interested in a sequel/reboot (the head of the family is supposed to be a grown up Rusty Griswald) but then I heard about the R-rated final bit in the trailer with Chris Hemsworth and decided I could at least watch the trailer:

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Bright Light Bright Light & Ana Matronic – Good Luck (Remix) – Official Video:

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The Last Word with Lawrence O’Donnell 5/6/15 Dodgers fans cheer for gay couple on Kiss Cam:

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Adventures in being straightsplained

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Earlier this week I posted about how much I love fantasy and science fiction and one of the reasons why. Specifically that sf/f had been a refuge from some of the cruelties a homophobic society heaps upon queer kids while they’re growing up. Much of sf/f is about escaping oppression of one sort or another. Science fiction in particular is often about the triumph of the light of reason over the darkness of ignorance. That gave me hope, as a kid. Sometimes it was the only hope I had. Which is why it feels like a double betrayal when I encounter homophobia in sf/f circles. One phrase I used to describe the homophobes in question was, “whose ultimate goal is to erase us.”

Which led one commenter to tsk at me and insist that, while the people in question are decidedly anti-gay, there was no evidence they want to erase us.

Oh, goodie! Straightsplaining! Homophobia isn’t what I think it is, at all! How foolish of me to think that my 50+ years of surviving the slings and arrows of homophobia gave me any expertise in the meaning or aims of homophobia!

It’s possible the commenter has a reading comprehension problem and thinks that erasure must always literally imply extermination and is trying to claim that the people in question don’t want all queers dead. So, on the slight possibility that that’s the case, let me just explain that when I say “erase us” I mean “wish that we were invisible and that all or nearly all evidence of our existence was removed from stories, books, movies, television series, and society in general.”

And you know what? Every single homophobe in existence wishes that we were, in the least, invisible. It is part of the definition of being a homophobe! It’s a common lie they tell themselves and us all the time: “I don’t hate gay people, just why do they have to shove it in my face all the time?” Or “I wish they wouldn’t flaunt it all the time!” Or “I don’t want my children seeing that!”

And in the cases of the Sad Puppies, making us invisible is exactly what they’ve been talking about:

  • When they lament the fact that they can’t always be sure when they pick up a “book with a rocket on it” that they aren’t going to encounter gay characters inside? That’s wishing we were invisible.
  • When they insist (in the comments thread of the post linked in the first bullet) that it is deceptive that another book’s back cover blurb didn’t mention prominently enough that the protagonist is gay? That’s wishing we were invisible.
  • When they insist that in a novel about a young person’s quest for self-discovery the fact that the young person is gay isn’t revealed until nearly midway through the book (when the character finally admits it to himself) is some form of malicious deception? That’s wishing we were invisible.
  • And when a pair of artists/writers reveal in the final scenes of the finale of their cartoon series that the female lead and her female companion are in love, and a homophobic sci fi writer compares those artist to termites that need exterminating simply because they included queer characters in their story? That’s wishing we were invisibile.

And while we’re on the subject of John C. Wright: when he says that the “instinctive reaction of men” to “fags” is “beating them to death with axhandles and tire-irons,” that’s beyond wishing we were invisible, it’s an explicit statement that they wish we were exterminated.

To the commenter who kicked this off: I don’t know how you could have been paying close enough attention to the Bad Puppies to notice that they were anti-gay, yet missed the many times they have alluded to the bashing (and worse) of queers. Just as I don’t know how you could have been paying close enough attention to these guys to describe Vox Day/Theodore Beale as “vile” and have missed all the times he’s said that homosexuality is an existential threat to civilization that must be either cured or eradicated. Because all of that is also evidence that even more than wishing we were invisible, they wish we didn’t exist.

So please, don’t tell me or any other queer person that we don’t understand our own oppression. To paraphrase bunnika : when you were watching our lifestyles and checking out the homophobes’ web sites, we have been living our lives and experiencing actual homophobia that you have no right to ‘splain.

Thanks for your comment, though. And bless your heart.


Note: Comments on this entire blog have always been moderated. Specific commenters have been whitelisted, but everyone else’s comments sit in a queue until I approve them. And I don’t see any point in approving comments that are insulting, or obviously coming from sock puppets (there have been a lot of those this week) or—such as the comment alluded to here—indicate the person isn’t interested in listening.

Friday Links (marriage, riots, and weird dinosaurs edition)

Harlem United's H.O.M.E Program Group taking a stand in front of the notorious Atlah church sign.
Harlem United’s H.O.M.E Program Group taking a stand in front of the notorious Atlah church sign.
It’s Friday! A grueling week of work is very nearly over! It’s the first Friday in May!!! And my husband and I have an awesome date night planned for tonight. Then tomorrow I and a bunch of my nerdiest friends are going to go see the new Avengers’ movie! Wicked, right?

Anyway, here is a collection of some of the things that I ran across over the course of the week which struck me as worthy of being shared:

Former Homeless Teen Cyndi Lauper Testifies Before Congress On Ending LGBT Youth Homelessness.

Dan Savage Presents His Manifesto For Straight Guys Attending Pride.

The glaring contradiction at the heart of the anti-gay marriage argument.

The Long Road Ahead: the ongoing fight for justice after marriage equality.

Harlem United’s H.O.M.E Program Group Strikes A Unified Pose Outside Notoriously Anti-LGBT Church.

How Ruth Bader Ginsburg helped pave the way for marriage equality.

Outside the Supreme Court, ‘love conquers hate’.

Why the ‘Religion is against gay marriage’ line no longer works.

Bloomberg Quick Take: Gay Rights.

On marriage debate, GOP candidates forget what year it is.

The central delusion of the Christian right: Americans aren’t really churchgoers after all.

Marriage opponents protest D.C. church.

It’s Not Gay Marriage vs. the Church Anymore.

The best part of the Supreme Court oral arguments about marriage equality was when Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg alluded to S&M. Sort of…

Two gay West Virginia high school athletes attend senior prom as couple, and no one freaked out. Their pictures are adorable!

5 Horrible Ideas Republicans Will Never Let Die.

Bobby Jindal just splintered the GOP: The unholy alliance between Fox News and the 1 percent can no longer stand.

The First Rule For Interviewing An Anti-Gay Hate Group. I refuse to use the scare quotes!

Rich Gay Republicans Very Sorry For Not Knowing Ted Cruz Is An A-Hole.

The joke was that Obama wasn’t joking.

Women are overpriced vagina buses that won’t let you ride them, Man Going His Own Way explains.

David Simon on Baltimore’s Anguish.

The night the news died.

In case you had any doubts, media is rolling with Washington Post’s stenography for Baltimore PD.

Larry Wilmore rips Fox and CNN for ‘thug’ debate: ‘Here’s an N-word’ for you — ‘news’.

Morgan Freeman: Unrest in Baltimore exposed ‘the terrorism we suffer from the police’.

This animal is so weird that researchers are calling it ‘the platypus of dinosaurs’.

Rosetta Captures Stunning New Images of Comet’s Surface and Activity.

A Million H-Bombs per Second Heat the Sun’s Corona.

Romer’s Gap and the Four-Limbed Critters of Nova Scotia.

Bizarre ‘Bat Dinosaur’ Discovered in China.

11 Amazing Images From the Final Days of NASA’s Messenger Probe.

Internet delivers justice to man who left snarky joke instead of a tip. Thanks to @seashellseller for the link!

NOM: We’re broke and need money before you see no reason to ever give to us again. My heart bleed purple peanut butter for them!

In much sweeter news: Homeless Pit Bull Found Nursing Abandoned Kitten On Roadside.

And I wrote How I learned to stop being a jerk and love the wish list.

And that It bothers some people that we exist, part 2.

And I confessed that I would lose my head if it wasn’t attached.

Misconceptions about Caffeine – mental_floss on YouTube (Ep. 24):

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Adam Lambert – “Ghost Town” [Official Music Video]:

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Barney Frank on the Supreme Court’s Gay Marriage Ruling – speculates that Justice Scalia will go up in a puff of smoke:

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Why Action Movies Are Musicals For Dudes – Today’s Topic:

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Cyndi Lauper Testimony: Hearing on Effort to End Youth Homelessness:

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Alex & Pam: Hallmark #PutYourHeartToPaper:

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Conchita Wurst – You Are Unstoppable (I can’t believe how aweseome every song that has been released from Conchita’s upcoming album is):

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