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Oppressed Oppressors, part 4

The percentage of Americans with no religious affiliation has grown since 2007 in both political parties. Source: Wall Street Journal, November 3, 2015.
The percentage of Americans with no religious affiliation has grown since 2007 in both political parties. © Wall Street Journal (Click to embiggen)
I always regret giving in to the emails, pokes, not to mention questions directly from some of my relatives about looking at Facebook1. The most recent example of why I shouldn’t look at Facebook wasn’t the crazy anti-immigrant meme that one of my cousins was sharing, it was the commentary he made along it: that it’s wrong to let these foreigners into the country, especially while treating good Christian white guys like him as a minority in his own country. There are so many ways to unpack that that I don’t even know where to begin2.

I didn’t begin, by the way. I’ve stopped attempting to communicate with him at all ever since the conversation a year or two ago while he was ranting about the War on Christmas where I tried to point out that not everyone who objects to manager scenes and the ten commandments in courthouses are foreigners who refuse to “learn our ways.”

So when I saw a news story today about a Pew poll showing that White Christians now make up less than half of the U.S. population, I realized this sort of irrationality is going to get a lot worse. Studies have already shown that people who are members of a privileged class start feeling as if something is being monopolized by another group when that group achieves 30% of the screen time or talk time, et cetera7. So now that White Christians actually do make up a minority, well, it’s not going to be pretty.

Of course many of them have felt that they were in the minority for a long time. I remember a few years back when the percentage of people who identified as non-Catholic Christian went below 50% that folks in the religious rightwing went bananas, claiming that Christians were now in the minority. This reveals a tiny piece of one of the major issues, here. Which is that a lot of the sorts of people who will non-ironicly talk about “taking back our country” don’t think that everyone (a lot of everyone) who claims to be a Christian actually is.

Another revelatory bit is an amusing string of posts that have been going around Tumblr. The original post talks about how sometimes the sheer cruelty of some homophobes makes them wish you could set them up with a blindfold, a stick, and a hornet’s nest, but tell them it’s actually a piñata. Someone else responded by commenting how casually anti-Christian most liberals are, and how they (the Christian commenter) are once again being demonized for their beliefs. The original poster then points out the the post said absolutely nothing about Christians, “but you chose to put yourself in there.” It isn’t liberals who define Christianity as anti-gay, it’s all the anti-gay people who call themselves Christians and claim that Christianity is anti-gay who have defined Christianity as anti-gay. The part that doesn’t often get acknowledged even on the liberal side, is that those folks refuse to accept anyone who doesn’t share their anti-gay views as part of their faith.

And I’m not just saying this because of a few Tumblr posts. During the lead-up to the 2012 Presidential Election, as Mitt Romney seemed poised to sew up the nomination, he met with the Rev. Franklin Graham, son of evangelist Billy Graham, (and the current head of Billy Graham Ministries). After Romney promised to fight marriage equality tooth and nail, a large section the the Graham Ministries website which had been there up until that meeting that went into great detail “proving” that the Mormon Church is a cult, rather than a legitimate part of Christianity, simply vanished. Literally deleted without comment. And suddenly Franklin Graham and all of the rest of the rightwing evangelicals were endorsing Romney.

A similar thing happened with Graham Ministries and Liberty University and the Moral Majority and such a couple of decades before when they all stopped referring to the Catholic Church as a cult (which they often described as ‘the whore of Babylon”) and the pope as the antichrist. It was 1994, after two years of the Clinton presidency, and it was becoming clear that popular sentiment was become less explicitly anti-gay. There was even a big conference that resulted in a bunch of evangelical leaders and Catholic leaders signing a document that supposedly outlined common doctrine. Except the document was mostly focused on a list of political goals, not least of which was overturning gay rights laws where they existed, and opposing any expansion of anti-discrimination laws by adding sexual orientation or gender identity.

So, while they like to claim that the word of god is inerrant and unchanging, they certainly are more than willing to forget all sorts of doctrinal differences in the name of preventing queers from having equal rights, or women from having control over their own bodies, or mega rich people having to pay taxes.

Because clearly when Jesus said to welcome foreigners, feed the hungry, visit the sick, clothe the naked, and so on, what he really meant was that god only helps those who help themselves… and happen to be white, and claim to be Christian, and never do anything foolish such as being born in poverty or in another country.

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Footnotes:

1. What’s the joke? “If I wanted to listen to my rightwing relatives most racist opinions I’d call them more often”?

2. First, there is the explicit notion that it’s perfectly okay to treat minorities poorly…3

3. It would be petty of me to also ask why a guy who hasn’t set foot inside a church in 30-some years except to attend someone’s funeral or wedding describes himself as Christian4.

4. And while church attendance doesn’t necessarily equate to belief, let’s just say no one in their right mind would describe his lifestyle as being even vaguely Biblical.

5. Note that it is not that Christians no longer make up a majority (They’re still about 70% of the population), nor even that Whites are no longer a majority. It’s that particular combination of being both White and a Christian. I think the more interesting statistic is that White Christians still make up about 70% of all Republican-leaning voters. While Democratic-leaning almost exactly one-third White Christian, a bit less than one-third non-White Christian, and then a bit more than one-third people of all races who either identify with another religion or none at all6.

6. Note that this still means that 64% of Democrats are Christian. So the Democratic Party is hardly the bastion of godlessness that some would have you believe.

7. Those same studies show that folks in the dominant group think that other groups are getting “equal time” when their representation or recognition amounts to 15%.

Friday Links (Remembrance edition)

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International Transgender Day of Remembrance http://tdor.info/ (Click to embiggen)
Thank goodness it’s Friday. November is moving along! It’s already the 20th, which means that today is the International Transgender Day of Remembrance

NaNoWriMo is taking up a lot of my time, so I’m not doing as much online news reading as usual. Anyway, here is a collection of some of the things that I ran across over the course of the week which struck me as worthy of being shared. Sorted into categories with headings so you can skip more easily:

Link of the Week

Former ISIS hostage, French reporter tortured for 10 months: They *want* us to retaliate.

This Week in Diversity

Russian Witch Baba Yaga’s Guide To Feminism.

The history of the Transgender Day of Remembrance.

This week in People Doing Good Things

Paris attacks: Restaurant worker who saved two women.

Can Cities End the School-to-Prison Pipeline? Relentless Organizers Are Tallying Wins.

This week in Evil, Greedy People

The company that raised the price of a drug by 5,000% posted a $14.6 million net loss in the third quarter.

News for queers and our allies:

3 Powerful Ways to Observe Transgender Day of Remembrance.

Moschino Barbie Boys. “It’s wonderful that we live in a world where conventionally masculine pro basketball players and soccer players can be out, as well as Olympic skiers and ass-kicking/porn-making boxers. But little boys who play with barbies—and grow up to be iconic fashion-house-reviving designers—aren’t a “harmful stereotype.” Those boys exist and there’s nothing wrong with them. And those boys came out first (because they couldn’t hide) and they came out swinging. It was little girly boys who made it safe for masculine gay dudes to come out and not the other way around.”

Starbucks Turns 97 Seattle Locations Into LGBT Safe Spaces.

GLAAD launches trans microaggressions photo project #transwk.

BUILDING RESILIENCE AND COMMUNITY DURING TRANSGENDER AWARENESS WEEK.

The Hidden History of Gay Purges at Colleges.

This Is What Happens At A Formal For LGBT Teens.

Science!

Article: Apollo 12: A Giant Leap for Trolldom.

Canada Opens the Door for Science Once Again.

Newly Discovered Bacteria Can Resist All Antibiotics. It’s a slightly misleading headline. This bacteria can resist the so-called “last resort” antibiotic. It does NOT have the mutations necessary to resist other antibiotics. However, as the article points out, it is only a matter of time.

Science Fiction, Fantasy and Speculation!

Being a Superhero Isn’t Helping Thor Fight Cancer.

Science-fiction, fantasy, and all the things in between.

Culture war news:

Dalai Lama: Stop Praying for Paris — Humans Created This Problem and Humans Must Solve It.

Reviving the ‘Liberal Media’ Myth.

Arrest Pastor Kevin Swanson?

At Least 100,000 Texas Women Have Performed Their Own Abortions.

“No evidence” to support “unfounded allegations” against Planned Parenthood: Attorney General Ferguson. That’s my attorney general (we elect the state attorney general here in Washington)

This is America in the age of decay: How we became a civilization dominated by racism & rage. What America and the world now face isn’t a clash of civilizations. It’s a struggle against our darkest impulses

This Week in the Clown Car

This is why Ben Carson lies: The dark, disturbing reality of race, religion and today’s right-wing.

Donald Trump Won’t Rule Out Special ID Cards For Muslim Americans.

“Syria-ously hot!” The right responds to Paris with Bible-thumping, scientific illiteracy, frat boy antics.

Stephen Colbert’s scathing Bobby Jindal farewell: GOP still party of stupid, Trump “offensive” and Carson “bizarre”.

Chris Christie can’t believe that the Paris attackers weren’t Syrian refugees.

Why Won’t People Just Call Ben Carson the Idiot He Clearly Is? Come on. The guy is as dumb as a bag of rocks. How does he get away with it? Because our society craves his narrative.

GOP Candidates Really Don’t Want To Talk About ‘Kill The Gays’ Conference.

This week in Other Politics:

Ignore The Freakout: Here’s What Obama Really Said About ‘America Winning’.

Observers Push Back Against Anti-Refugee Ugliness: “No Exaggeration to Call This Un-American.”

The National Association of Evangelicals Calls for Continued Resettlement of Refugees.

Inslee says Washington state will continue to welcome refugees. That’s my governor!

Now the Truth Emerges: How the US Fuelled the Rise of ISIS in Syria and Iraq.

Things I wrote:

When bad things happen look for the heroes.

The red cup is already silly old news, but it’s more than a joke.

Meta-labels and Sub-genres – loving sf/f in all its forms.

Videos!

Trans women tell GLAAD about their experiences in honor of Trans Day of Remembrance:

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Use the iPad Pro like a Wacom Cintiq:

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Elton John – Looking Up:

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Panic! At The Disco: Victorious [OFFICIAL VIDEO]:

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When bad things happen look for the heroes

This is Adel Termos pictured with one of his children.  Mr. Termos sacrificed himself by tackling a suicide bomber in Beirut on Thursday.
This is Adel Termos pictured with one of his children. Mr. Termos sacrificed himself by tackling a suicide bomber in Beirut on Thursday.
Really bad things are happening around the world. And not just the ones that your national media is obsessing over.

One Day Before Paris, There Was a Massive Terrorist Attack the Media Ignored “It’s not just Paris we should pray for, it is the world.”

There Is Only One Way to Defeat ISIS “We must hold accountable our Middle Eastern “allies”—the states and bankers and political elites—who persist in funding mass murder.”

Paris Was Not The Only City to Be Hit With A Terrorist Attack This Week.

This Is the Hero Who Sacrificed His Own Life to Save Hundreds From ISIS Terrorists. “…the attacks in Paris and Beirut are only the latest in a wave of terrorism that has swept the globe in recent months. Only weeks ago, a Russian airliner was downed near Egypt’s Sharm el-Sheikh resort in what was likely a bomb attack. In July, Egyptian soldiers killed nearly 100 militants in the Sinai during skirmishes there. Meanwhile in the Turkish capital of Ankara, nearly 100 were killed in explosions.”

Friday Links (91-year-old badass edition)

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Thank goodness it’s Friday. November is moving along!

NaNoWriMo is taking up a lot of my time, so I’m not doing as much online news reading as usual. Anyway, here is a collection of some of the things that I ran across over the course of the week which struck me as worthy of being shared. Sorted into categories with headings so you can skip more easily:

Link of the Week

Required Viewing: Maddow On “Kill the Gays” Pastor and the GOP Candidates Who Love Him.

This Week in Diversity

ICEMAN AND WHY IT’S IMPORTANT TO STAND WITH OUR FICTIONAL FRIENDS.

Binders Full of Men.

Aziz Ansari on Acting, Race and Hollywood.

Black Kids Will Save America.

News for queers and our allies:

Gay East Carolina Univ. diver left Mormon faith and became Baptist after coming out.

Double the Sex or Double the Pitfalls? How Does a Bi Marriage Really Work?

The Devious New Conservative Plan To Turn LGBT People Against Each Other.

Kansas Teacher In Hot Water For Showing Bullying Video Has Been Reinstated.

Happy News!

VIDEO: President Jimmy Carter Says He Feels Fine, Keeps Busy Despite Cancer.

Science!

When the Sun Went Medieval on Our Planet.

VIDEO: BMW Drivers Really Are Jerks, Studies Find.

Jimmy Carter’s Cancer Battle Spotlights 2 New Therapies.

Science Fiction, Fantasy and Speculation!

World Fantasy award drops HP Lovecraft as prize image.

Here’s What “Uncanny X-Men’s” Iceman Coming Out Scene Got Right.

Terminally ill fan who saw Star Wars: The Force Awakens early has died.

H.P. Lovecraft was always a terrible choice for the World Fantasy Awards. “Lovecraft wrote stories where books could usher in the end of the world. H.P. Lovecraft wrote stories where imagination would lead you to death and insanity. H.P. Lovecraft wrote stories where curiosity didn’t only kill the cat, but made the cat pray for death to a cold and uncaring universe. H.P. Lovecraft wrote stories where the only thing you’d find through the looking glass, at the back of the wardrobe, or out beyond the stars was madness, depravity, and despair.”

This Week in History

How did the first world war actually end?

Culture war news:

Mormon Church Nostalgic for Days When Homophobia Just Hurt Homos. “I’ve seen lots of painful things, but nothing so widespread, in terms of the devastation and heartbreak. I personally talked to dozens of people who are walking away. And these aren’t people with LGBT ties. These are ardent, faithful, in-the-box believing Mormons who can’t abide this,”

The Most Effective Argument Against Gay Rights: The conservative backlash to marriage and transgender equality is officially under way.

Starbucks’s red cup controversy, explained.

Cartoon: The right to an unfair trial.

Utah governor says judge who ordered child removed from same-sex couple should ‘follow the law’.

On Campus Racism And The Fairy Tale Of The P.C. Police.

50 Cent, Vivica A. Fox And The Absurdity Of Hip-Hop Homophobia.

This Week in the Clown Car

The real reason Donald Trump appeals to working-class whites: Racial animus only tells part of the story. Red-state voters really believe Trump is so rich he can’t be bought.

Ted Cruz will never “Let It Go”: The right-wing’s insane new fear of “Frozen”.

Poll: The more that GOP voters hear about Bush, the less they like him.

The Fox Business GOP Debate Was Boring — and Rigged.

Why Is the Media Ignoring Ted Cruz’s Embrace of ‘Kill the Gays’ Pastor?

AP: Carson Profits From Ties With Felon Convicted Of Health Care Fraud.

This week in Other Politics:

Rachel Maddow Dazzles And Puts The Republican Debates To Shame At SC Democratic Forum.

The Most Basic Rule Of Journalism. “Hillary Clinton and Ben Carson and Carly Fiorina and the rest will argue that Who/What/When/Where/Why/How are all “gotcha” questions, but holding them (or anyone) accountable for their assertions — by demanding proof — isn’t a “gotcha” game.”

How Paul Ryan is already changing Congress.

It’s time to withdraw from the Middle East: Military intervention is only making terrorism worse. It’s time for a radical pivot.

Obama Administration Announces Support For Amending Civil Rights Act To Protect LGBT People.

Jimmy Carter gets optimistic update on cancer treatment.

This Week in Police Problems

Pseudoscience in the Witness Box: The FBI faked an entire field of forensic science.

Things I wrote:

Weekend Update – 11/7/2015: Children Being Failed.

Trying too hard to proclaim oppression….

Here comes the gloom again.

The 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month….

Cosmic Cringing – lovable sf/f made by less-than-lovable people.

Videos!

Steve Grand – “We are the Night” ACOUSTIC – LIVE at YouTube Space LA:

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Starbucks Holiday Cup Controversy:

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Baby Hitler Is No Match For Jeb!:

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5 Seconds of Summer – Hey Everybody!:

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Panic! At The Disco: Emperor’s New Clothes [OFFICIAL VIDEO]:

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Weekend Update – 11/7/2015: Children Being Failed

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Source: thedesmondproject.com/Homelessness-Info.html (Click to embiggen)
Every minute I’m blogging is a minute I’m not adding to my NaNoWriMo word count, but some things have crossed my virtual desktop since making yesterday’s Friday Links post that I think need to be shared.

First, many weeks back I shared links to the story of Joel Andrew, an 18-year-old student who was kicked out by his parents for being gay. They didn’t just kick him out, they refused to pay for tuition at the college he was enrolled at, they refused to sign any financial aid forms (which means that legally he can’t apply for federal aid until he turns 25, yes it’s a thing), and they demanded that he stop using his last name (Andrew is not his original surname). The daughter of his dance teacher set up a GoFundMe page to raise money to pay his tuition for one semester, tons of people donated, and so on. There’s more news, and it’s good news (as much as you can get from a story like this): College Dance Student Raises $60K For Tuition After Parents Disown Him For Being Gay. Go read the linked stories.

The parents now claim that they didn’t kick him out, and didn’t demand that he stop using their last name, but I strongly suspect that’s a case of the classic, “I didn’t tell him he had to move out. I told him that if he was living under my roof who would have to stop seeing his boyfriend, stop admitting he’s gay, et cetera, et cetera.” Anyway, Joel is doing alright, now. Which is good. I want to echo Dan Savage’s comments that there are a lot of Joels out there who didn’t have someone to set up a GoFundMe page. We can help kids like Joel by donated to organizations such as the Ali Forney Center, the True Colors Fund, or the Point Foundation. There are a lot of local charities that serve the homeless, particularly homeless teens. Find one near you and help if you can.

Second: I included one link yesterday to news that the Latter Day Saints church has officially declared that gay members are no longer simply sinning, but are now apostates, and not only that, but that children of gay people in same sex relationships are banned from Baptism and serving in the church until they turn 18 and then only if they renounce their own parents. As Natasha Helfer Parker writes at Patheos: ‘…how dare we go against our own doctrines and punish the children for the “sins of their fathers?”‘ Being an apostate means that one has renounced or completely abandoned their faith and it in utter rebellion against said faith and principals. Calling being in a gay relationship ‘apostasy’ puts it on par with murder and rape, and as more than one observer as commented, the church doesn’t refuse baptism to the children of murderers nor rapists. It’s got more than a few members upset, obviously.

It would be really easy to make snarky comments. When stories like this are posted on gay news sites, there are always people chiming in with, “what gay person would want to live in {fill in name of extremely conservative state}” or “why would anyone want to belong to a religion that doesn’t welcome them?” or “all religions are B.S. anyway, so why should we care?” and so on. My answer remains the same: we don’t choose where we are born and we don’t choose which family we are born into. As children we were dependent on our families and communities of origin for the means of survival. Policies like this hurt people who cannot protect themselves. They create an atmosphere of bullying and coercion that drives children to commit suicide. And particularly in close-knit communities that encourage extended families to remain close and depend upon one another, this kind of intolerance ruins lives.

The repercussions of B.S. like this reach well past childhood or the children directly impacted. These teachings are what drives parents to kick their children who appear to be gay, lesbian, bi, or trans from their homes, for instance. The LDS church isn’t alone in this by any means. The Southern Baptists can claim that they love and respect everyone, but when in the same statement about marriage equality they say “Silence in the face of evil is itself evil” they’re saying to every queer or questioning kid growing up in their churches that they way they were born is evil. Which will lead many of them, after years of praying and doing everything in their power to stop feeling the way they do and being who they are to believing they are irredeemable and inherently unlovable. Just as the Catholic church can keep tricking reporters into repeating the claim that the church is “more welcoming to LGBT people” when that welcome is not unlike the parents I talked about earlier—you’re welcome to be told again and again that who you are is inherently disordered and you may only stay so long as you live a miserable, lonely existence constantly denying who you are.

Third: The loss of the Houston Equal Rights Ordinance is not simply a matter of one city. Nor is it as simple as hate and ignorance winning. We need to do some evaluation like this one: Why Houston’s Equal Rights Ordinance Failed 80 if for no other reason that we’ve seen before that the anti-gay folks will reuse arguments that worked once again and again to take rights away. They are going to mount more campaigns just like this one to try to take away protections in jobs, housing, and so on. It isn’t a new tactic, by any means, but it’s one that can be made to work: How The Religious Right Learned To Use Bathrooms As A Weapon Against Justice

And they aren’t just using it to get anti-gay people to vote against us, they are already trying to get us to turn on each other: Homocon Petition: Drop The “T” From LGBT. It’s an anonymous petition. It is being promoted by certain gay republican jerks who have in the past argued against marriage equality and anti-discrimination laws. Scores of books can be written about why those folks actively participate in their own oppression, but make no mistake: this petition is not coming from people who have the well-being and rights of any queer person in mind. It’s called divide and conquer. If they can get us fighting among ourselves, it will be easy to not just stop the advancement of freedom, but to actually turn back the clock.

Don’t be fooled!

Friday Links (leopard and cub edition)

A still from a World Wildlife Fund hidden camera. © World Wildlife Fund (Click to embiggen)
A still from a World Wildlife Fund hidden camera. © World Wildlife Fund (Click to embiggen)
It’s already the fourth Friday October!? It’s the month of pumpkins and falling leaves and spooks and costumes! It is also Gay History Month

And tomorrow night is HALLOWEEN!!!

Once again, I’m really, really, really glad that the weekend is upon us! Between throwing my back out last weekend and crazy deadlines converging at work, I’m wrung out!

Anyway, here is a collection of some of the things that I ran across over the course of the week which struck me as worthy of being shared. Sorted into categories with headings so you can skip more easily:

Link of the Week

Elusive Himalayan snow leopard and cub inspect camera.

This Week in Shaken, Not Stirred

The Economist quantifies the 24 James Bond movies: everything from box office results to martinis consumed.

This Week in Diversity

“Where are you really from?”.

A is for (A)sexual – What my identity means to me, and the 6 questions about asexuality I get asked the most often.

What the row over banning Germaine Greer is really about.

GLAAD Report: LGBT Representation on TV Is Up, But Still Very White.

Funny Is Funny: Homophobia, Misogyny and the Lack of Diversity in Comedy.

This week in People Doing Good Things

HIGH SCHOOL STUDENTS SERVE AS PALLBEARERS FOR HOMELESS VETERANS WITHOUT LOVED ONES. (Thanks to Foxraven for the link)

Dateless, Singled Out, And Not Taking It Anymore.

A D.C. cop tried to break up a group of teens. It ended in this impressive dance-off.

This week in Topics Most People Can’t Be Rational About

The Concealed-Carry Fantasy.

This week in Difficult to Classify

A true 12’s response to a fair-weather Seattle Seahawks fan – ‘We don’t need you’.

4 Things They Didn’t Teach You in Sex Ed.

Library Board Votes Against New Logo and Name Change. Here’s What Happened at the Board Meeting.

This week in Evil Greedy People

How an industry of ‘Amazon entrepreneurs’ pulled off the Internet’s craftiest catfishing scheme.

Cracked! American Egg Board CEO Resigns Over Eggless Mayo Scandal.

Happy News!

In October at least, America runs on pumpkin.

Science!

Watch this video: On a dry lakebed in Nevada, a group of friends build the first scale model of the solar system with complete planetary orbits: a true illustration of our place in the universe.

Snow leopards rebounding in Afghanistan amid concerns the species are verge of extinction.

Drug engineered from bananas shows promise in fighting deadly viruses.

The Science of Denial.

Agriculture was independently invented at least 11 times on four continents – not just in the Middle East. It’s time to rethink how modern civilisation took root.

And now the Pluto family portrait is complete.

Puget Sound orcas welcome sixth baby born to endangered pods this year.

Six-inch long teeth of ancient Megalodon shark found on North Carolina beach.

Dinosaurs are extinct, but the business of smuggling them is thriving.

Ancient Pterosaur Used Four Huge Fangs To Snack On Ancient Crocodiles.

September blew away the margin for Earth’s warmest month on record.

Ancient super-predators could take down a mammoth.

First humans in Northern North America: 11,500-year-old baby fossils show humans ‘paused’ as they spread across the globe.

Did ancient animals REGROW their limbs? Fossils suggest the ability to regenerate was widespread 300 million years ago.

Suspended USDA researcher alleges agency tried to block his research into harmful effects of pesticides on bees, butterflies.

Hungry Baby Otter Found on California Beach Is Recovering.

Einstein Is Right About General Relativity — Again.

A Lack of Animal Poop Is Causing a New Environmental Problem.

Astronomers make a remarkable discovery in the center of the Milky Way.

Before-and-after pictures show how climate change is destroying the Earth.

Clouded Leopards Threatened by Sudden Increase in Poaching and Live Trade.

Science Fiction, Fantasy and Speculation!

Ash vs. Evil Dead Prep: Your Guide to the Evil Dead Franchise.

Starz Renews ‘Ash vs. Evil Dead’ Ahead of Premiere.

The Case For Queer Superhero Films.

LE GUIN’S ANARCHIST AESTHETICS.

25 Years Later, ‘Darkman’ Remains the First Horror Genre-Driven Superhero Film.

Why ‘The Flash’ And ‘Arrow’ Are What Young Science Nerds Have Been Looking For.

This week in Writing

Some Writing Advice That’s Mostly Useless (And Why).

Find the Conflict: Unblocking (or Actually Planning!) your NaNoWriMo Novel.

Post on tools useful in planning the first draft of a novel.

Zadie Smith’s 10 Rules of Writing.

Never quote a rock lyric in a book unless you’re rich.

3 Steps to Rev Up Your Writing Momentum.

Culture war news:

Remember the Guy Who Gave His Employees a $70,000 Minimum Wage? Here’s What Happened Next.

Florida’s New Anti-Gay, Anti-Woman Bill May Be the Most Malicious Yet.

All Republicans agree: America is a hellhole.

This Hacker is Destroying Racist and Homophobic Websites One by One.

When Bigots Freaked Out About Campbell’s Ad With Gay Dads, This Man Had A Brilliant Response.

How Utah’s Anti-Gay Birth-Certificate Law Got Crushed in Court.

As the World Congress of Families, an international extremist group, meets in Salt Lake City, The Daily Beast goes undercover to peel back the curtain.

This Week in the Clown Car

Cruz, Huckabee And Jindal Will Join Pastor Who Wants Gays Put To Death.

Jeb Bush’s campaign continues to freefall.

Ben Carson says as ‘volatile’ teen he ‘went after people with hammers’ and tried to stab someone. Keep in mind: he brought this up as an attempt to prove that he’s got the passion and energy to run a full presidential campaign. What?

These GOP Candidates Were Born Into Privilege But Want You To Think Otherwise.

Trump to Iowa Voters: ‘Get Your – in Gear!’.

Ted Cruz’s damaging shutdown delusion.

No, there is no constitutional problem with an all-Florida presidential ticket. The headline isn’t exactly accurate. There will be issues, but the article is correct that it isn’t technically unconstitutional. Given how bitchy Rubio and Bush got with each other at the debate, I suspect it isn’t going to be an issue.

‘Captain Underpants’ banned from school book fair over gay character.

New Bill Would Allow Doctors to Refuse to Treat Women and Gay People.

Enjoy your honeymoon while it lasts, Marco Rubio: Why the GOP’s star debater still isn’t ready for primetime.

Huckabee Seems to Think We Can cure Cancer, Diabetes, Alzheimers, and Heart Disease with Executive Order.

At debate, Ben Carson says he has no connection to Mannatech.

This week in Other Politics:

The next president should break up some big companies.

Sorry Joe Biden, But the Republicans ARE Our Enemies. “…Republicans are our enemies simply because they’d decided we are their enemies, targeting our rights, our livelihoods and our families”

Former Republican House Speaker Hastert Sentences to Six Years After Pleading Guilty to Lying to FBI About Paying Hush Money to Student He Sexually Molested as a High School Wrestling Coach.

How Dennis Hastert’s sex abuse scandal led to him pleading guilty to a banking crime.

Wisconsin Governor Signs Bill Limiting Political Corruption Inquiries.

What in the world is a ‘Freedom Foyer’?

Ryan Makes Immigration Reform Deal With Freedom Caucus Member.

The One Guy Who Can Fix Politics Is the One Guy Democrats Won’t Let You Hear About.

In first, Democratic hopefuls fight to be most pro-LGBT.

Charles Koch’s Frankenstein problem: He created the Tea Party monster — and now he’s horrified with the results.

This Week in Racism

Anonymous Vows To Unhood 1,000 Ku Klux Klan Members.

Death threats and civil complaints after People of Color Yoga controversy.

The Unbearable Whiteness of Pro-Lifers and Pundits.

This Week in Police Brutality

White America will ignore this video: The hideous & predictable violence of our schools, our legal system, our society. For the record: the actual video was shared with me on Twitter, Tumblr, and Facebook at least four dozen times before this particular article went by, and it was white people who were sharing it, so, um… what?

South Carolina Deputy Ben Fields Fired After Body Slamming Student [VIDEO].

Video Shows NYPD Officer Tackling, Choking, and Pepper-spraying a Skateboarde.

This Week in Misogyny

This Is Not a Game: How SXSW Turned GamerGate Abuse Into a Spectator Sport.

How SXSW really, really blew it.

SXSW canceled two panels after threats — but did nothing when female panelists asked about harassment.

I Was on One of Those Canceled SXSW Panels – Here is what went down.

News for queers and our allies:

Pop Matters does a retrospective on the album that, 25 years ago, contains the most poignant, heart-wrenching song about the AIDS epidemic: All The People I Was Kissing, Some Are Here And Some Are Missing.

I am outside, and I am wearing a dress. This is a new experience, wearing a dress in public.

How The Words “I Dare You” Changed My Life Forever.

Nasty Baby Is the Gay Film We’ve Been Waiting a Decade For.

Finding Gay Baby Jail.

Celebrating Gay Manhood.

‘We still love each other’: meet the man who came out after 20 years of marriage.

The Trope of the Evil Television Bisexual.

Gus Kenworthy Responded To This Idiotic Gay Relationship Question Perfectly.

Sylvia Rivera becomes first trans American to have portrait in the Smithsonian.

Dallas Police Respond To String Of Violent Attacks Targeting Gay Community – VIDEO.

Gay North Carolina high school football player was depressed despite ‘having it all’.

Rainbow Smoke and Glittering Mirrors: How not to tackle homophobia.

‘50s Hollywood Sex Symbol Tab Hunter is still a Young Love at 84.

Farewells:

Maureen O’Hara, spirited movie star, dies at 95.

Things I wrote:

Just call me Mr. Chicken.

If you never get started….

What you like, what other people like….

Storms, Brains, and Reanimated Flesh – more of why I love sf/f.

Weekend Update 10/24/2015: Bigot Backpedals, Others Sued.

Videos!

Music as a Language: Victor Wooten at TEDxGabriolaIsland (thanks to Deeptriviality for the link):

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Of Monsters And Men – Thousand Eyes (Official Lyric Video):

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Pet Shop Boys – Being Boring 1990 HD ( 25 years ago this week… ):

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NERVO feat. Kylie Minogue, Jake Shears & Nile Rodgers – The Other Boys (Official Video):

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I Put A Spell On You – Bette Midler – Hocus Pocus 1993 – HD edited:

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The Best Gay (ish) Halloween Flicks:

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Anything Can Happen On Halloween:

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Weekend Update 10/24/2015: Bigot Backpedals, Others Sued

herosmear-660x330Interesting news keeps breaking after I put together my Friday Links post and sometimes it just needs some commentary. Houston Texans Owner Bob McNair RESCINDS His Donation To Anti-LGBT Rights Campaign. Quick background: Houston city council expanded the city’s anti-discrimination ordinance to include sexual orientation and gender identity. Since last election the people of Houston had elected an out lesbian as Mayor, this wasn’t a big surprised. But bigots were upset, and first they tried to run an initiative to repeal the ordinance, but made the very big “mistake” of collecting signatures in churches… outside of Houston. So a lot of the signatures were invalid. There are lawsuits and counter-lawsuits. Pastors gave sermons promoting the repeal effort (which ought to mean the churches in question lose their tax-exempt status, but that never happens when it is conservative churches doing it).

Despite all the evidence that the signatures were collected incorrectly and a lot of them were invalid, the Texas Supreme Court ordered the repeal initiative put on the ballot. So there’s a campaign going on, and the owner of the local NFL team recently donated $10,000 to the effort. Lots of people were upset about this, but the best response was from former NFL player and perennial LGBT-supporter, Chris Kluwe: Kluwe Rips Texans Owner Bob McNair. Besides the hilarious editorial, Kluwe also posted contact information for the Texans front office on twitter and so forth, so fans could let the organization know that they found it difficult to believe the NFL’s claims that it is not homophobic and that it welcomes all fans and all players when one of the owners does this.

The owner, who had made statements to the press (not other people speaking on his behalf, as he now claims) saying that the discrimination ordinance should be repealed, suddenly took his donation back. He can claim that he just wanted a thoughtful re-write, but his previous actions and statements don’t back that up.

josh-duggar-sex-scandal-fans-tlc-cancel-19-kids-and-counting-molestation-allegations-backlash-04Meanwhile, there’s more news in other parts of bigot land. Remember the Duggar clan, and the fact that one of their kids sexually abuses his sisters (and he was treated as the victim, not the sisters). And part of the family’s “treatment” was to send him to stay with a family friend who was later convicted of sexual abuse of children himself? Another part of the treatment was to send him to the Institute for Basic Life Principles, which is a rightwing religious organization that I have some experience with, as it used to run these big seminar things that I was enrolled in more than once. Anyway, that organization has transformed into a home-schooling thing and: Home Schooling Program Used By Duggar Family Sued For Sexual Abuse Of Minors and Five women sue Bill Gothard’s ministry that has ties to the Duggars.

The founder of the program has already been removed because of charges of sexual harassment of underage girls. His fetish for a particular kind of long curly hair is the reason the Duggars and all the other whack-o Quiverful people make all their daughters curl their hair that way, by the by. Also, the institute’s lesson plans for counseling girls who have been sexual abused or assaulted is all about convincing the girl it is her fault for luring the man to having impure thoughts.

None of this should surprise anyone, of course.

Friday Links (pig-nosed turtle edition)

CR83EcwVEAApv1QIt’s already the fourth Friday October!? It’s the month of pumpkins and falling leaves and spooks and costumes! It is also Gay History Month

Once again, I’m really, really, really glad that the weekend is upon us! Between throwing my back out last weekend and crazy deadlines converging at work, I’m wrung out!

Anyway, here is a collection of some of the things that I ran across over the course of the week which struck me as worthy of being shared. Sorted into categories with headings so you can skip more easily:

Link of the Week

Let’s listen to each other on the topic of guns. We have to stop being irrational at each other and actually work on the parts of the situation that are indisputably a problem, and also happen not to be impossible to solve.

This week in Difficult to Classify

Could a simple mistake be how the NSA was able to crack so much encryption?

This week in Heart-wrenching

Teen testifies about getting whipped in church, brother’s death. THE LATEST: LAWYER SAYS CHURCH BEATING SUSPECT A ‘SWEET’ MOM

5th north St. Louis church burns in 9 days.

7 Fires Set At Mostly Black Churches In St. Louis Area Ruled Arson.

‘It is arson:’ 6 churches set on fire near Ferguson in 10 days.

This week in Evil Greedy People

Price-Gouging Pharma CEO Fuming As Rival Creates $1 Alternative AIDS Drug.

Science!

Different Brain Regions are Infected with Fungi in Alzheimer’s Disease.

Hints of Life on What Was Thought to Be Desolate Early Earth.

New Species of Ancient Shorebird Identified from New Zealand Fossils.

A Genetic Study Writes a New Origin Story for Dogs.

Thomas Jefferson’s hidden chemistry lab was just discovered.

Pluto Is Sublime. It’s Also the Pits.

The 2 Types of Knowledge You Should Know About.

Hubble’s sharpest photos of Jupiter ever taken reveal a rare feature that hasn’t been seen for over 36 years.

Arvinachelys goldeni: Fossil Shows Pig-Snouted Turtles Lived among Dinosaurs.

Oldest known jawbone from human genus found in Ethiopia.

Scuba divers in Bahamas find trove of extinct animal fossils and clues to a scientific mystery.

Science Fiction, Fantasy and Speculation!

Ursula K. Le Guin on Where Ideas Come From, the “Secret” of Great Writing, and the Trap of Marketing Your Work.

Fantasy Book Critic Welcomes Howard Andrew Jones – Wishing That Leigh Brackett had Written More.

Hollywood Gives Its Black Geek a Promotion.

This Week in History

Germany tells Netanyahu: “No, we are actually responsible for the Holocaust”.

The Deadly Legacy of HIV Truthers.

Culture war news:

Conservative radio host freaks out: ‘Transgender crowd’ will use magnets to suck God from your brain.

DEBUNKING THE MEN’S RIGHTS MOVEMENT.

11 Outrageous Lies by the Fox News ‘Terror Analyst’ Who Was Actually a Con Man.

Georgia Confederate Flag Supporters Charged With Terrorism.

What should we make of a billionaire homophobe donating money in furtherance of the denigration of an entire class of American citizens?

A perverted campaign against LGBT rights in Houston.

The Unsuitables.

2 Lesbian Students Have Been Told They Can’t Wear This Shirt To School. School Official Said A Shirt Was ‘An Open Invitation To Sex’

Planned Parenthood Clinics are Burning, and No One Seems to Care.

Please feed the Star Wars trolls: White supremacists need to be noticed to keep their ideas on the fringe.

Venice lawmaker files controversial “religious freedom” bill opposed by gay rights groups.

This Week in the Clown Car

A black perspective on Ben Carson, the Teapublican’s ‘anti-Obama’.

Is Trump right about 9/11?

Jeb Bush didn’t want to be defined by his brother. Now he wants to get him back in the race.

Rubio’s Immigration Magic Trick: For Immigration Reform and Also Against It.

Trump: Iowa Voters Have Chemical-Addled Brains.

This week in Other Politics:

Canada’s Justin Trudeau leads a Liberal landslide in stunning election victory.

The False Rise and Fall of Rand Paul.

Biden’s True Legacy: He Was Obama’s Conscience on LGBTQ Rights.

Sad, sexless, lonely: This is the real Paul Ryan/Ayn Rand vision for your life.

Hillary Laughs In The Face Of Teabagger Rep.

After marathon day of Clinton testimony, Benghazi committee continues streak of partisan failure.

This Week in Sexism

She’s the heroine of the Star Wars universe, so why was she erased from this children’s shirt?

This mathematical formula shows that all-male panels are sexist.

News for queers and our allies:

My Transgender Daughter: A Father’s Emotional Journey from Shame to Acceptance.

MOVIES Talking with ‘Big Eden’ director Thomas Bezucha.

‘I am gay’: World-champion skier and Olympic medalist Gus Kenworthy comes out.

6 Transgender Women’s Memoirs You Need To Read Now.

A Big Step Toward Ending “Cure Gay People” Therapy.

Matt Zarley Romances Film Festivals with Acclaimed Musical Short Film & Recording Project – “hopefulROMANTIC”.

How a Facebook Post Became the Best Mistake I Ever Made.

Farewells:

Bruce Hyde (1941-2015). Hyde was absolutely sensational during the first season of Star Trek, in two major guest starring turns as Lieutenant Kevin Riley in “The Naked Time” and “The Conscience of the King.”

Things I wrote:

Applause from the wrong side.

You don’t have to add diversity—just stop erasing it!

Learning how to write what you want to write.

Monsters Are People, Too – more of why I love sf/f.

Videos!

The Rocky Horror Picture Show Reunion (Today Show) [Barry Bostwick, Susan Sarandan, Tim Curry, Meatloaf and Patricia Quinn were interviewed earlier this month]:

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Troye Sivan – TALK ME DOWN (Blue Neighbourhood Part 3/3):

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In case you missed it: The Future Is Now! – 10/21/15 – A Special Message From Doc Brown:

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Friday Links (robotic telescope edition)

A duplicate of China's Jade Rabbit lunar probe photographed during tests before launch (Image: CNSA)
A duplicate of China’s Jade Rabbit lunar probe photographed during tests before launch (Image: CNSA)
It’s already the third Friday October!? It’s the month of pumpkins and falling leaves and spooks and costumes! It is also Gay History Month

Once again, I’m really, really, really glad that the weekend is upon us!

Anyway, here is a collection of some of the things that I ran across over the course of the week which struck me as worthy of being shared. Sorted into categories with headings so you can skip more easily:

Link of the Week

Why Twitter’s Dying (And What You Can Learn From It). When a technology is used to shrink people’s possibilities, more than to expand them, it cannot create value for them.

This Week in Diversity

The Only Request Any Voiceover Actor or American-Latino Need Follow.

Beauties and Beasts by Amelia Vaughn. “Because he should know that true love is still for him, even though he’s not interested in pretty girls. He deserves that. All kids do. Because true love is for everyone.”

Just Because You Do These 3 Things Doesn’t Make You A Feminist.

To the LGBT community, the niqab debate sounds mighty familiar.

This week in Topics Most People Can’t Be Rational About

SHOCKER: The Northern Arizona University Shooter Is a Patriot and a Gun Nut.

This week in Difficult to Classify

One of the news sites that linked to this introduced it with “I want to be in Obama’s book club!” It’s a conversation about literature: President Obama & Marilynne Robinson: A Conversation in Iowa.

This week in Heart-wrenching

Slain Transgender Woman Was Target of ‘Neighborhood’ Robbers: Police.

Happy News!

Paramount opens their vaults, puts huge movie collection on YouTube channel.

Science!

Pluto’s Sky Is Blue! Well, Kinda.

China Put a Robotic Telescope on the Moon 2 Years Ago—and It’s Working Great.

Filmmaker Combines Every Photo From the NASA Apollo Mission Archive Into a Stop-Motion-Style Video.

Is Our Universe a Fake?

Can you hear me now? Early humans’ hearing abilities actually mirrored a certain animal’s.

Hairy animals have been around longer than thought: 125-million-year-old ‘Cretaceous furball’ fossil pushes back origins by 60 million years.

The Wet and Slightly Less Wet Microclimates of Seattle.

Science Fiction, Fantasy and Speculation!

Turn off the Brain, and Enjoy the Ride.

16 films adapted from horror giant H.P. Lovecraft.

This week in Geek

How is NSA breaking so much crypto?

On Apple’s Insurmountable Platform Advantage. “The truth is the best people in chip design no longer want to work at Intel or Qualcomm. They want to work at Apple.”

The Inside Story of Apple’s New iMacs. To me the heart is the effort they went to in order to make the sound the new mouse makes as if moves “right.” It is all about the details!

Culture war news:

What You’re Saying When You Use the Phrase “Politically Correct”.

We Were Sued by a Billionaire Political Donor. We Won. Here’s What Happened.

Republicans Admit Planned Parenthood Did Nothing Wrong.

School district fights feds on transgender student’s locker room access.

10 Ways Right-Wing Christians Are Destroying Christianity.

N.J. archbishop: No communion for Catholics who support gay marriage.

Libertarian superstar Ayn Rand defended Native American genocide: “Racism didn’t exist in this country until the liberals brought it up”.

Paul Krugman bursts David Brooks’ fantasyland version of conservatism: “Actually existing conservatism is a radical doctrine”.

Death of the Reagan revolution: Why the Southern Strategy is beginning to come undone.

Feds Arrest Fox News Commentator, Allege He Lied About CIA Past.

This Week in the Clown Car

Uh Oh, Lying Liar Carly Fiorina’s Planned Parenthood Lie Just Turned Into A Bigger Lie.

A Gay Dad Sounds Off On Why Mike Huckabee Is Choking On Those Rainbow Doritos.

The Psychology of the Impossible Campaign: An Investigation Featuring George Pataki.

How Steve Jobs Fleeced Carly Fiorina.

Ben Carson’s Broken Brain Has New ‘Thoughts’ On Gay Marriage.

Rand Paul’s Solution to LGBT Discrimination: Go Back in the Closet.

Louisiana’s nasty Bobby Jindal hangover: GOP failure is giving new life to Democrats in the unlikeliest of places.

This week in Other Politics:

Independent review board says NSA phone data program is illegal and should end. Bad headline, because the real story is: “We have not identified a single instance involving a threat to the United States in which the telephone records program made a concrete difference in the outcome of a counterterrorism investigation,” said the report, a copy of which was obtained by The Washington Post. “Moreover, we are aware of no instance in which the program directly contributed to the discovery of a previously unknown terrorist plot or the disruption of a terrorist attack.”

Congressional Dems Urge TSA To Change Screening Procedures For Transgender Passengers.

Here Are The Two Best Things About The First Democratic Debate.

Amazing: Hillary goes for human!

DC insiders think Bernie Sanders lost the debate. Here’s why they might be wrong.

I’ve been trying to figure out how to say this to some of my friends: Bernie Sanders truthers, step down: There’s no conspiracy to hide that he “won” the debate.

Obama again delays Afghanistan troop drawdown.

This Week in Racism

County Official Who Made A Bunch Of Racist And Sexist Facebook Comments Resigns.

The real reason the Republican Party is imploding: It’s still all about race.

This Week in Sexism

Cartoon: FAMOUS SCIENTIST DOES SOMETHING BAD.

Why are homophobic atheists rare, but sexist atheists are common?

Chivalry Isn’t Dead, You Just Don’t Know What the Fuck it is.

REMEMBER WHEN FROLICKING ON THE BEACH WITH YA HOMIE WAS OKAY?

News for queers and our allies:

San Francisco Is Changing Face of AIDS Treatment.

The “All In The Family” Episode That Changed Gay Rights In America.

Gay libbers as moral heroes.

My Transgender Son Never Listens to Me – He’s trans, but my son is still your typical rambunctious little boy.

Managing The “Mom Factor” As Same-Sex Parents.

How WWII Started The Modern Gay Rights Movement [Video auto-plays].

Mormon Church Bleeding Members Over Gay Marriage.

How Identical Twin Boys Became Brother and Sister: One Family’s Courageous Transgender Story.

PHILADELPHIA: No Jail Time For Two Alleged Gay Bashers, Third Rejects Plea Deal And Will Face Trial.

‘Conversion therapy’ endangers LGBT youth and must stop: U.S. report.

Farewells:

Sad Stuff: Underground Comics Giant Dennis Eichhorn is Dead.

Things I wrote:

Come out, darlings, the world is fine!

Indigenous Peoples Day.

Overthinking is the enemy of creativity!.

Every child deserves to live free of harassment.

Nuclear Dinosaurs and Tragic Heroes – more of why I love sf/f.

Videos!

Time – [Official Music Video] – Steve Grand:

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Eli Lieb – Zeppelin (Official Video):

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Matt Fishel – “Finally” (Official Music Video):

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The Late Show with Stephen Colbert – New Campbell’s Ad Angers A “Million” Moms:

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Umbrella – Vintage “Singin’ in the Rain” Style Rihanna Cover ft. Casey Abrams & The Sole Sisters:

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AJ McLean – Live Together ft. Jordan James:

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Weekend Update 10/10/2015 – Buds, Bullets, and Bullies

Another of my posts mostly about news that came out after I queued up the Friday Links.

Bring out the buds!

Thursday before last was the first day of legal recreational marijuana sales in Oregon. The big news out of Oregon that day should have been about the triumph of de-criminalization over the myths of the war on drugs, et cetera. Instead we had a mass shooting at Umpqua Community College. Despite that, legal marijuana did move forward, and in a really big way: Oregon’s first week of recreational pot sales tops $11 million.

Wish we could just dodge the bullets

The Upmqua Community College shooting was the 32nd mass murder (using the FBI’s definition) in the United States of 2015. Lots of news organizations were reporting that it was the 32nd mass shooting, but the FBI doesn’t have a definition for mass shooting, only for mass murder, which is when four or more people are killed in a single incident. But the media keeps reporting these as mass shooting statistics, and I think that that affects how people perceive the problem, because by the FBI’s statistics, the Lafeyette theatre shooting in July, in which eleven people total were shot, but only two died, isn’t being counted in that statistic.

A more reasonable statistic would be the define a mass shooting as any time 4 or more people were struck by a bullet in a single incident, regardless of how many of them survived. By that metric, The Umpqua Community College shooting was the the 295th mass shooting of the year. Read that again: 295 mass shootings for far this year in the U.S. as of October 1—that’s more than one a day. That’s more mass shootings in a year than other countries have in decades. Heck, that’s more mass shootings a day in the U.S. than most countries experience in a decade! Yet, some people keep insisting that these things can’t be prevented. They are right only in the sense that as long as we let them use that nonsense argument to prevent us from doing anything about it we won’t reduce the number of shootings.

It shouldn’t have surprised us that on Friday morning there was news of yet another school shooting: Arizona Campus Shooting Came After Fight Between Two Groups of Students. Four people shot, only one of whom died. So it won’t be counted as a mass murder, but it certainly was a mass shooting. And we shouldn’t be surprised at this revelation: SHOCKER: The Northern Arizona University Shooter Is a Patriot and a Gun Nut.

As if one school shooting on Friday wasn’t enough, we had two! TWO IN CUSTODY IN FATAL TEXAS SOUTHERN UNIVERSITY SHOOTING. Since I made a big deal in the earlier paragraphs about definitions, it would be misleading of me to refer to the Texas Southern shooting as a mass shooting: only two people were shot, of which only one died. However, the Texas Southern shooting is worth mentioning because it was the third shooting on that campus within the space of a week! There are been another incident on Tuesday night, and they mention just casually an incident the previous weekend where someone fired two shots but didn’t hit anyone.

CQVBjUXUcAAxPuCBut Congress doesn’t have time to close any loopholes in existing gun laws (such as a fact that it is not a federal crime to knowingly purchase a gun on behalf of someone who is legally barred from owning a gun!). They’re too busy conducting a witchhunt against Planned Parenthood and coming up with nothing. Republicans Admit Planned Parenthood Did Nothing Wrong.

Billionaire bully

Fortunately, not all of the news late on Friday was bad: We Were Sued by a Billionaire Political Donor. We Won. Here’s What Happened. Billionaire donates millions to anti-gay causes, a magazine reports the fact, and he sues them for defamation. This is a variant of a problem we deal with with these rightwing nut jobs all the time: if you don’t want to be called a bigot, stop doing bigoted things! Especially when you’re a co-finance chairman of not one, but two presidential campaigns (which means you are no longer considered under the law a private citizen, you’re now a public figure) who buys dozens of billboards to put up anti-gay messages, purchased full-page ads in major newspapers to run anti-gay slogans, go on Fox News to describe how awful it is to institute anti-bullying campaigns that try to protect gay children from harassment and bullying, et cetera.

That’s enough of the Friday news…

National Coming Out Day

On a much more pleasant topic, tomorrow is National Coming Out Day: What You Need to Know: National Coming Out Day 2015.

Coming out is scary. It doesn’t always go well. I’ve written before about some of the issues I’ve had (and sometimes continue to have) with family members and old friends. But I firmly believe that, unless you are a kid living at home or otherwise still dependent on your parents for financial support, or unless you live in a place where it is illegal to admit to being queer, coming out is better than continuing to live the lie. There will be some surprises when you come out. Some people that you are certain will never come around, will become your biggest defenders. Some people who you thought might understand will disown you and go to their grave without reaching out. You will definitely learn which people really love you, and which only love the idea of who they think you ought to be.

But living the lie carries a heavy price, because you live in constant fear of being found out, and you expend a lot more energy than you realize trying to cover things up all the time. Second-guessing yourself, keeping track of cover stories you’ve told, the constant worry damages both your mental and physical health. And all of that goes away once you stop hiding in the closet. Once you’re free of that you’ll be able to fill your life with people who really love and respect the real you for who you are. And that is a much happier and healthier way to live!

‘Define Me’ – Ryan Amador (featuring Jo Lampert):

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